CUTTER CONSULTING GROUP

[E271] Tales of a new CRO, with Darryl Praill (Part 1)

January 17, 2024


Is your marketing team held accountable for the number of sales?


Is your marketing team held accountable for the number of sales? Moreover, is your sales team targeting all the possible leads to close a sale? 


When given a list of leads, salespeople tend to select prospects that they find will close sales. It is crucial to take account of all leads to ensure that you are driving maximum revenue. Tracking how much revenue is driven can lead back to the sales team to discover space for improvements. 


In this episode, Darryl the Chief Revenue Officer and I discuss the importance of company structure, driving leads, and having the right salespeople on the team. 


Learn how to use the strategies and techniques as a salesperson to gain revenue. Hear about the encounters within a sales team and the ways to hold them responsible for reaching their leads.



Book your free Sales Power Call with Jason

Enroll in the Persuading Like A Professional Online Mini-Course

Download The Power of Authentic Persuasion ebook

Get help with your sales team

Connect with Jason on LinkedIn

Connect with Darryl on LinkedIn


Darryl’s Bio:
Darryl Praill is the Chief Revenue Officer at VanillaSoft, the industry’s most established Sales Engagement Platform. As an accomplished award-winning marketer, a Sales World Top 50 Keynote speaker, a 2020 top 10 SaaS Branding Expert, a Top 19 B2B Marketer to Watch in 2019, a social media influencer, a category-leading podcaster, and a serial entrepreneur. Darryl has raised almost $100 million in venture capital, acquired, merged and taken companies public, been hired and fired, and worked for companies of all sizes



Links:



• VanillaSoft

Twitterhttps://twitter.com/vanillasoft

LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/vanillasoft/

Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/vanillasoft/

Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/vanillasoft/

 

• Darryl Praill

Twitterhttps://twitter.com/ohpinion8ted

LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/darrylpraill/

  • Show Transcript

    Jason Cutter: Hey, welcome to another special guest episode. On this episode, I have Daryl Prail. You're going to hear us talk about a lot of things. If you're a longtime listener or fan of the Sales Experience Podcast, you know that Daryl was on season one. was actually in episode 30a and some background on Daryl. So Daryl is now the chief revenue officer at Vanilla Soft, the industry's most established sales engagement platform.


    That's what's in his bio. And it's true. I've seen it in action. I think it's a great piece of software. There's many others in that same market, but it does really great stuff. As far as the other information about him. Accomplished award winning marketer sales world top 50 keynote speaker. I saw him speak at a conference, which is how we got connected and have continued the relationship 2020 top 10 SAS branding expert, top 19 B2B marketer to watch in 2019 social media influencer category, leading podcaster.


    serial entrepreneur. He's done everything from VP of sales, consulting, chief marketing officer, and now CRO. He's raised a ton of money for organizations. He's done so many things and I'm excited to have him back on the show because at the time he was a CMO, chief marketing officer, and now he's a CRO. And so under a year and a half, he's made a big transition and learned a lot and saw a lot.


    And if anyone knows me, part of my mission. Is to help bridge those gaps and bring together sales and marketing instead of it being a us versus them. It's everyone rowing in the same direction, which the CRO position does. So this is a great conversation. It's gonna be a four part. We go through a lot of stuff.


    He shares a lot of great tips. If you're an owner of an organization, a CEO or an executive leader in an organization, this is a must listen set of episodes because he's going to share with you the challenges he faced. the struggles, the plan that he put in place, and then some tips for getting to a place where you're going to put a CRO in place.


    And if you're a CRO listening, obviously there's some value packed in this. And then for everyone else, if you're in sales or marketing more at the frontline level, it's so important to hear what is structured in organizations when it's done properly, where there is that person at the top that's bringing everything together.


    So Enjoy my conversation with Daryl. Daryl, welcome back to the sales experience podcast.


    Darryl: That's how I'm just fantastic. Jason. Welcome back. You had me back.


    I'm sorry, dude. This is awesome.


    Jason Cutter: Yeah, and you do have the honor and distinction of being the first return guest to the sales experience podcast. Our episode, our conversation, which was super fun, was May 24th, 2019.


    It was episode 30A. At the time, I was trying to keep it clean numbers one through five every week. And this was a bonus episode, and obviously a bit has gone on since May of 2019.


    Darryl: May of 2019, the world has changed, my friend. Oh my goodness, has it changed. We have lots to talk about. What are we talking about today?


    What do you want to talk about?


    Jason Cutter: I think what's fun is a little recap for people. So you work for a company, Vanilla Soft, which makes some great technology to help with call center salespeople to manage their pipeline of leads and does a lot of things. What's fascinating is we first met last year, early in the year at Martech conference, where you gave a presentation to a conference full of marketers called the day that marketing held sales accountable, which was, you might say it's a little click baity, even in your own words.


    But really an important topic and then since that time to now, you're now the CRO of vanilla soft, which is the chief revenue officer, which is in my mind, a newer term that has been made up to signify that person who's now in charge of marketing and sales as a joiner of them.


    Darryl: It's true at the time when I gave that presentation of the chief marketing officer.


    And of course, that's your point, vanilla soft sales engagement platform. So we would sell our product largely to sales leaders to be used by their sales teams. All the topics and the content we speak about is often sales related. Ironically though, marketing leaders also have a vested interest in making sure that the leads they generate for sales are actually followed up on with the right speed to lead and the right persistency and the right cadence and the right channels because marketing leaders are measured by the revenue they contribute.


    Okay, we give you a million dollars to spend on whatever programs. How much revenue did you drive? So both of those personas, the sales leader, the marketing leader have an interest, but I was the CMO and therefore my conversation was the day marketing held sales accountable. And it was a fun conversation because many that when I would give that conversation.


    All the marketers in the room, I would ask them every time, how many people here are frustrated and feel like you've spent all this time and money and love creating these programs to generate these leads, the sales just botches it up and it was like overwhelming. How many were like, Oh yes, preach hallelujah brother.


    That is, talk to me. And I was like, I was a kindred spirit. Let me walk through and the sales reps were always interesting. The sales reps would always be. Reserved. And they'd watch the conversation, and then they would watch it, and I would just walk through it. I would show how it was never malicious.


    Sales was never intentionally trying to physically botch it up, as I say. And they would come to me after the conversation, they would say, I was really suspect of your topic, but I got to say, you nailed it. And one of the things I would talk about in the presentation was how Reps cherry pick.


    So marketing, you generate, say, 10 leads. But the reps go, Oh, lead number three. Oh, lead number seven. Oh, lead number nine. Those are really cool. I'm going to call them first. And the marketers are going aren't you going to call the rest of the leads that we made all this time and money making? And the reps would always come up to me and they would say, I'm totally guilty of cherry picking.


    You're right, you nailed it. And I would say, yeah, I understand why you're cherry picking it. But let me show you how we can help you fix that. So Mark seems happy. And you call all the leads, because if you call all the leads, maybe number two and number six are the ones that actually close, even though you skipped them initially.


    So that was the premise of the conversation. And you're right. It's easy for me to sit up in my ivory tower as a marketing leader and say, sales, you need to do this. Stop boxing it up. You're affecting my ROI. But now, your point, fast forward a year later, and now I'm the chief revenue officer, I own still all of marketing, but also all of sales.


    And I'm the one who has to actually be accountable for the number. Ironically, it's be careful what you say, folks, because suddenly they're gonna say, Oh, you think you can do better? Here's the keys to the kingdom, show us how it's done, buddy!


    Jason Cutter: And that's where I'm at. One thing I've seen is that sales people worry about only being able to win if they use manipulation, tricks, tactics, and hard closes.


    So they end up struggling to close deals, make their quota, or earn the kind of money that they want to make. If this sounds like your current situation, or maybe you want to make more money in sales without feeling like you're selling, then my upcoming book called Selling with Authentic Persuasion will help.


    In it, I'm going to take you on a journey to transform from order taker to quota breaker. If you're ready to become an authentic persuader, crush your goals, and create success in your sales career, then go to jasoncutter. com. Again, that's jasoncutter. com and pre order the book today. And I remember sitting in that audience, being a sales guy, being a consultant, and generally Before the title of CRO was a thing being that person, right?


    VP of sales marketing. One time I had my title was VP of sales marketing and operations, which was a little wordy for a business card, but it's basically tying everything together. So I remember sitting there and thinking you're a hundred percent right. And the way you did it was great. It wasn't okay.


    Everyone, pitchforks. Let's go kill sales. It was. Marketing is doing this. Sales is doing this. Everyone needs to work together. And if you put some tools in place, then sales can do what they do best, which is have conversations with the right people at the right time being served up by, shameless plug, something like Vanilla Soft.


    But just anything that enables sales to just work on all the leads.


    Darryl: Sales Loft, you can use Outreach. I compete with them in certain industries. The whole premise, though, is use the tools. They're for a reason. And that was the whole premise of the conversation, was that so many people, they'll sit, we're all guilty of this, we're all people, right?


    We'll all bitch and moan sometimes about how the cards we've been dealt and the other guys sucking and they, I hate them. And the reality is, it's not that they suck. You shouldn't really hate them. If anything, go out for drinks together. Or, in this modern era, go out for an e drink together. Get to know each other because the reality is you actually want the same thing.


    You're just approaching it from different spots. So try to find some common ground and try to support and lift each other up. And this was the case in my presentation on marketing, marketers. This is how you can help sales. And if you help sales, it's actually ironically going to help you. But yeah, no, I have it now and it's interesting, one of the things I said to my CEO, I remember him coming to me because there's always that pre conversation, right?


    So before it's hey, Daryl, we're going to promote you because at this point in time, it's never, I was already a CMO. So it wasn't like, maybe I didn't want the job. Maybe I didn't want to be promoted. Maybe I didn't want to have that nut for the quota. So he comes to me and he goes, Hey, I'm thinking about maybe we should hire a CRO.


    And I'm like, okay, yeah, cause we had a VP of sales before. And he says, if I were to do that, he goes, would you at all be interested in the job? And I'm like, Oh, okay. And so from there, the conversation went, he was great. I had time to think about it and make sure we had expectations of line and all that great stuff.


    And it wasn't just handed to me. I had to go and create a whole plan. I had to go present it to the right people and blah, blah, blah. There you go. But. I remember saying to him the day he announced it, it was, hey, the whole company internally, Darrell is now the CRO and I reached out to him and I said, dude, that is such a weight on my shoulder.


    I see these young companies where they have five or 10 people and there's some 25, 20 6-year-old person who is the CRO? And I said, you're not the CO, you're just a glorified sales rep. Maybe you've got an intern. That's about it. You're not the CRO. I'm sitting here at 52 years old.


    And I'm going, I now know what it means to be the CRO. I've lived it. I've got the battle scars. I've been hired. I've been fired. I've been beat up by VCs. I've watched other sales leaders fail miserably. I know exactly what I'm stepping into and it is a heavy burden. And I remember him saying to me, so then Darryl, if I can be so bold, why did you take the job?


    And I said, Oh, that's an easy one. I took the job for one simple reason. And he goes, what? I said, control. And he goes, help me understand. I said, the friction is gone now. The marketing Darrell says, I think we need to do this. And he turns to sales Darrell and says, if marketing Darrell does this, will you do this?


    And sales Darrell says, you're damn straight. I will. Boom. Let's go. Let's go do it. So that's what I liked about, and that's why I took it, was the chance to go really fast and make a difference.


    Jason Cutter: Alright, that's it for part one of my conversation with Daryl Prail. Make sure to go find him, easiest place, Google Prail, or you can go to darylprail.com.


    You can find him on LinkedIn as well. And I will see you in tomorrow's episode. That's it for another episode of the Sales Experience Podcast. Thank you so much for listening. If you find yourself on iTunes, can you leave the show a rating and a review? It helps other sales people and sales leaders find the show and please subscribe to the show and share episodes you find valuable with anyone you know in sales.


    Help me on my mission of changing the way sales is done. And if you're ready to work together, go to Jason cutter. com. Again, that's Jason cutter. com. To find out how I can help you or your company create scalable sales success. I will see you on the next sales experience podcast episode, and keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


Become a Certified Authentic Persuader

Get the ebooks to help you close more deals

Visit Selling Effectiveness for more tips and get help

Follow Jason on LinkedIn

Or go to Jason’s HUB – www.JasonCutter.com

By Jason Cutter February 19, 2025
What does it take to build the ideal Sales Experience? Why does it even matter? Maybe you think you already have one. You are a professional sales ops leader. You have put everything you can in place to help your salespeople sell more. You have optimized the processes so that your sales team can focus on one thing – selling. But I promise – even if you think all of that is true, it’s not. The Reality: No Perfect Sales Experience Exists I have never seen any company or team with the ‘ideal’ Sales Experience and operation. And to be honest – I have never built one successfully. Why would I admit that? Because the ideal Sales Experience is aspirational and business, teams, processes, and customer needs/desires are constantly changing. So as soon as you put new processes in place, something else needs to change and evolve. The Scalable Sales Success Iceberg In my Scalable Sales Success Iceberg – there are 24 categories that, when built out, create a scalable sales machine – where you can add in an input and get way more output. I would love to see companies have all 24 categories set up and running optimally. But that’s not even possible – because, as I mentioned, things are always changing. Focusing on the Biggest Levers Here is the key – to build the ideal Sales Experience takes focus on the biggest levers. The ones that, when pulled, create the biggest and best results. There are many processes and systems that you can put in place – but those are going to get you a few percentage points of improvement. Instead of putting it all in here, I want to make you a special offer. Email me at jason@sellingeffectiveness.com with your mailing address, and I will mail you the book that I co-wrote with Nick Glimsdahl called Reasons Not To Focus On The Sales Experience. It will be your starter guide, facilitating the creation of your ideal Sales Experience.
By Jason Cutter February 18, 2025
The Numbers Game Mentality is a Losing Strategy Sales is no longer a “numbers game.” You cannot succeed, long term, by focusing on volume of activity. Making a million dials, sending a million emails, knocking on a million doors (the first two are way easier than that last one) is a scorched earth strategy that will sink your business. You can’t out-dial a bad sales process. It will lead to even more bad online reviews. You can’t out-email a terrible sales funnel process that requires people to jump through poorly planned hoops. You can’t out-knock your way past slimy tactics and bad products/services. The Danger of the "Every No Gets Me Closer to a Yes" Mindset The whole “every no gets me one step closer to a yes” mentally is dangerous. That mindset and strategy assumes that it’s a numbers game. That the only thing that matters is finding the right person who will buy from you. Potentially, no matter what you even say – they are just ready to buy. Not only will this destroy any online reputation you have it will also wreak havoc on your team. It is the fastest and best way to burn out your team. It will lead to a revolving door or hiring, training, and quitting as people realize how unfun the game is you have built and how hard it is to be successful. It will also feel like a mismatch – very few people (and hopefully even less over time) are long-term excited about the business model of calling 500 people a day in hopes of making a few sales. If It’s Not a Numbers Game, Then What Is It? It’s quality over quantity. [Now…note – it does take a certain quantity of activity to fill a sales pipeline. So I am not saying that your sales team can just sit and wait for people to fall into their pipeline with money in hand.] It’s about the Sales Experience. It’s about your team ensuring that they are providing the right and best experience for that potential customer – in a way that sets them up to get into the buying mood and mode. All that matters is the Sales Experience. How can you support your team in terms of the quantity of activity to fill a pipeline, and then the quality of interaction that leads to sales? What Does an Ideal Sales Experience Look Like? What does that look like – the ideal Sales Experience? It’s when your team understands that the potential customer they are speaking with only cares about themselves. They don’t care about the salesperson, your company or the product. They are only focused on themselves. It’s when the Discovery/Empathy portion of the conversation is the most important part. Does your team realize that everything after Discovery – when done right – is just a presentation of the solution? It’s the fact that when you combine the parts of the Authentic Persuasion Pathway (Rapport + Empathy + Trust + Hope + Urgency) that the assumptive close is all you need. If your team is having to ask for the sale they are doing sales wrong. And don’t confuse earning the right to close with asking for the sale. The Sales Leader’s Role in Creating a World-Class Sales Experience Your job as a sales leader is to ensure your team understands that the only thing – above all else – is the sales experience they provide to each potential customer. That customer knows that they have the power and the feeling of unlimited choice. Which means they will decide who to give their money to based on the experience they have with buying from a company. How can you shift your team away from the numbers game mentality to actually providing a world class sales experience to each and every person they speak with?
By Jason Cutter February 17, 2025
The Abundance of Options Today we all have lots of options. While writing this I could speak into my phone and order whatever I want. I can get food delivered before I finish writing this article. I could get a TV delivered to my door before I wake up tomorrow. When someone wants to buy something, they are armed with as much information as they want to access. They can research, read reviews, and watch videos about a product or company. The Shift in Power to the Buyer Because of this, the power balance of sales has shifted away from the salesperson and company to the buyer. Knowledge is power – and they now have all the knowledge they want. With knowing that they have ultimate choice of what to buy (internet and globalization has led to the ability to order anything you want from anywhere…so you are no longer limited to the stores you can drive to and what they have on hand), it means that everything is a commodity in their minds. Nothing is unique or special. Everything is interchangeable. Does the Sales Experience Even Matter? So, this means the sales experience doesn’t matter anymore. There is no reason to put effort into the sales process, the conversations with potential customers. No value in spending time trying to ‘help’ people – since they just view products, salespeople, and companies as interchangeable. You are not special, so there is no benefit in caring. They will walk into your store, and they will decide what they want. They fill out your online for, and they decide if they answer when you call and how the call will go. They walk up to your event/booth, and they decide how the interaction will go and if they want to listen to your elevator pitch. They will let you know if they are interested in moving forward. They will let you know how they want to buy. So, like I said above, there is no real value anymore in the sales experience. Or could it actually be valuable? Is it possible that all that matters IS the sales experience? If people feel they have ultimate information and control of the buying process, how do they decide on what to buy and who to buy from? When I search on Amazon for a product type I have never purchased before, how do I pick? When I want to go shopping for garden supplies for the house, how do I pick where to go? When I need to buy a new fridge, who will I hand my money over to? The cheapest place with terrible service? The place with reasonable prices and great service? The Sales Experience Shapes the Decision I choose based on the sales experience that I will receive. With everything else being equal, I (and I believe most people) will select the place to shop at or the products to buy online based on the experience I receive. To me all that matters is the experience. While I am trying to buy something. Once I receive it – ensure it does what I need it to do. With the feeling of unlimited choices, it can actually be harder now to buy something that in the past. People get into analysis paralysis more often. Which means that for consumers to buy something new they need help. They need a professional salesperson. They need a sales experience that matches their expectations. They want a guide who will help them make the right decision for them, with an experience that goes above and beyond what more people receive any more when they walk into a store, call a company’s toll-free number, or visit a website and have to fill out a form. If you want to succeed in sales – the only thing that matters is the sales experience you provide.
By Jason Cutter February 13, 2025
The Balance of Effort in Sales The blogs this week have been about the other person going most of the way. Whether it’s a prospective customer and your salesperson, where the salesperson truly can’t want the deal or make most of it happen for that customer to truly be successful. On the path for that prospect to becoming a customer, they should go at least 51/49. Whether it’s your team and their manager, the manager can’t want the team to succeed more than the team actually wants it for themselves. It’s not scalable for the coach (manager) to run on the field every play to win the game for the salespeople. What about sales ops processes and systems? What about the tools available to the sales team and the ones that are classified as sales enablement? In a reversal of philosophy, I believe the sales ops processes should go 90, the team should only have to go 10. Why Do We Need Salespeople? Let’s start where it matters – what is the point of having salespeople? I know many owners question the need and desire to have salespeople. They are hard to manage, tough to deal with, always want more money (potentially for doing less work and closing less deals), and are very resistant to change. Of course, that is a generalization. Of course, there are salespeople who don’t check those boxes. However, having worked with a lot of teams in a lot of industries, that generalization isn’t completely wrong or unfair. So if there is even a small part of that which is accurate, why would we even mess with the messiness of having salespeople? Of needing to employ and manage humans? The Human Element in Sales We need them. That’s why. Even in 2025, AI and technology has not successfully replicated the requirements of sales – which is about helping a human (prospect/customer) make the right decision and move outside of their comfort zone to buy something new. It still takes your human (salesperson) to persuade that other human. It’s why I say all the time that its not B2B, B2C, Retail, SaaS, etc. – it’s H2H. Sure, people can buy something online or even in a store without speaking to someone. But if it’s a considered purchase where there are options and decisions to be considered – it still takes a human being involved. That means ultimately your human (salesperson) has one job, and one job only – persuade the right prospective humans to buy. Minimizing Distractions for Salespeople Everything outside of that mission, task, focus is a distraction that takes away from their highest and best use. Imagine if we had a surgeon who had to prep the room, prep the patient, schedule the surgery and meetings, and do all the parts of the surgery themselves. Nope – they show up for the surgery and do what they do best. Then they take off their gown, gloves, and walk away to get cleaned up and move on to the next thing. Your goal as a sales ops leader is to support the team with systems and processes that allow them to focus on the one thing you need them for. The human part. It would be amazing if they could show up, talk to people, and make sales happen. Of course, there is more that they (and any professional) need to do before, during, and after the sales conversation. But your goal is to minimize all that. Every hour that your salespeople aren’t selling or doing sales-related activities, they aren’t moving revenue forward. The Ultimate Goal of Sales Ops What processes can you put in place that go 90 percent of the way, where the salesperson can do the last 10 percent? An example would be building an email campaign that runs automatically, and when the right people reply, the salesperson gets involved in getting that person from email to phone call. Another example would be your CRM serving up people for the salesperson to call – leads or anyone in the sales pipeline flow – with all the backstory, research, data, intel needed for them to review it then take action. What can you put into place that takes away as much distraction and effort from your sales team such that they can focus on the one thing you need to focus on – other humans?
By Jason Cutter February 12, 2025
The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
Show More
Share by: