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E120: Straight Talk with Danny Creed – Part 4 of 4

January 4, 2024


How do you think having a positive mindset and clear goals can make a salesperson successful, based on your own experiences?



This is the final segment of the conversation I had with Danny. 

In Part 4, Danny and I talk about:


  • Money motivations
  • How much effort do you want to put into your sales career?
  • How successful people see the world
  • Watch out for negative people


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Danny’s Info:



Real World, Master Business Coach Danny Creed is an international master business and executive coach, business consultant; trainer, best-selling author, international keynote and workshop speaker and experienced entrepreneur and business owner. (www.realworldbusinesscoach.com). He is a recognized expert in sales, management, and start-up business strategic planning. He is a business turnaround and marketing specialist with a strong emphasis on business and personal development.

Danny is a 
Brian Tracy International Certified Business Coach and Sales Trainer. Coach Dan has logged to date nearly 15,000 business coaching, consulting and training hours. He has been involved with 15 successful start-up businesses and over 400 business turnaround challenges. Dan commits himself to over 200 hours of continuing education to enhance his coaching skills. Coach Dan is the SIX-time recipient of the FocalPoint International Brian Tracy Award of Sales Excellence.

Danny Creed is a published author. His first book, BOOTSTRAP BUSINESS, was a collaborative effort with world-renowned business development experts, Tom Hopkins (How to Master the Art of Selling), John Christensen (FISH!) and Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul). His second, 
A Life Best Lived; A story of Life, Death and Second Chances is available worldwide on Amazon.com and Audible at http://www.businesscoachdan.com/author/

Danny Creed’s next books, 
Straight Talk on Surviving and Thriving in Business and Straight Talk on Finding Customers: The Champions Network, are planned for a Christmas 2019 release. He is also widely published in numerous magazines around the world including Business Coach Magazine, serving all of Eastern Europe and Business Venezuela, the magazine of the Venezuelan American Chamber of Commerce.

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome back, sales experience podcast. My name is Jason Cutter. This is part four. The final part of the conversation that Danny and I had literally on a roll before I knew it, I looked down and we were just cruising through the time that we had set for recording and funny enough, after we stopped recording, we continued talking for another 20 minutes and a talk about doing another part of this down the road, especially once he’s launched his books and you know, providing more value. So super fun. Hopefully you enjoyed this. Hopefully you got a lot of value out of this. Danny is a great guy. Makes sure at the end of this, he talks about his links, make sure to follow him, find him, check out his books, his materials. He is a wealth of knowledge and information and loves giving back. And I appreciate him being on the show. So please make sure to support him. And I appreciate you supporting the show and listening to this. Hopefully you’ve enjoyed it. Again, if you want to find the full transcript, go to cutterconsultinggroup.com and without any further adieu, enjoy this final segment with Danny and I.


    Danny: Look, I’m not saying don’t take the biggest salary you can. But from a management standpoint, if it’s not the smartest thing to pay your sales people salaries and no commission or no one say, I live for commission, you want to make more money. I don’t have to go ask anybody. I go out, I sell more. You know, and even if you have a great salary and everything else, you still have to have that mentality that if I want to make more, I’m going to go out and create it. 


    Jason: Yup. Which goes back to the goals, right. So you gotta have those goals and go after them and know what they are, whether they’re short term or long term. Right. I will debate, you know, five year goals are ridiculous for most people and not good because you never know where your life is going to be in five years.


    Jason: But some goal for this pay period this week today, even the action steps, what do you got to do to get to where you want to be in the next 90 days and the next 12 months. And you know you’ve got to have that, especially as a salesperson because that’s what’s going to get you through the nose and the bad days and the slumps and carry it through.


    Danny: Well I agree with you on that. The only thing I would say on the, like the five year though is that you should probably have some goals on income for five years out. You know, cause if you had income goals you could change what you’re selling to achieve that income goals. So I agree with you though from a sales standpoint, but that long term goal or you know, if you want to make six figures or seven figures, you better be have that you know picture to know what you’re going to sell and how you’re going to sell it.


    Jason: And then working backwards, you’ve got to put in the effort. It’s one thing to want six figures or seven figures, it’s another one to put in the right appropriate amount of effort. And there’s nothing wrong. You don’t have to have a seven figure goal or even a six figure goal, but you always got to put in the right effort to match where you think you should be or the game you talk about playing. 


    Danny: I really don’t appreciate anybody who gripes about the economy or the president or the weather or what the Russians are doing. You know, we didn’t research piece once and we did a research piece once and cause I had this contention that no matter what business category, no matter how ludicrous you could come up with that, there’s always one person in any market in America. Let’s just, I’ll trust you. Crushing it.


    Danny: And you know, I was like, you’re a sewer cleaner. There’s five or six in town, but there’s one guy. So we actually did that research once and it’s a longer story, but we, what we did is once we found that one guy, we’d call him up and you know, you’re talking to some guy, we go, look, we’ve talked to all your competition. And they said, you’re the guy crushing it. Why are you crushing? He goes, “well, everybody’s, all my competitions sets around is watching the news and seeing all the bad stuff going on in there. They get in their heads, Oh golly, I better cut back on my advertising and marketing and pull my head in my shell like a turtle and see what happens.” And at the same time he goes, “I figured all their clients, they’ll lead to buy something somewhere.”


    Danny: I can’t change the world news. So I just went out and said, “Hey, I’m open.” And it was attitude. I mean, it was there. If you have to have in this everything we’ve been talking about, you better have an attitude of I don’t care what’s going on, I have a product you need. That’s where it comes down to. And I know a lot of successful sales people that haven’t watched the local news in 10 years. Cause it just…


    Jason: It doesn’t matter. And it brings you down. It’s causing a negative mindset and you’re focusing on the wrong things. So.. 


    Danny: Well, I believe there’s two mindsets we could have in sales. We can have a survival mindset and we can have what I call a thriving mindset. And the thriving mindset, you don’t have to be thriving, but you believe you will be by the actions you’re taking.


    Danny: And sometimes I can discover that so quickly in a prospect or salesperson, I’m praying, all I have to say is “how are you doing today?” And the, the survivor will go, “well, I’m okay, I’m getting by.” You know, and the thriver will go, “I’m doing fabulous. I’ve got 15 presentations a day and I know I’m going to sell one or two or three,” you know, and it’s all between the ears. Our biggest competitor is between the ear. If you’re selling anything, you know, if you don’t believe in it. I’ve sold stuff where people say, I don’t know whether this work will work or not, but you obviously do so I’m going to buy it. So it’s mindset. I actually had a guy telling me, I talk about in one of my speeches and books that I, I asked guy when he’s goals, where he goes, well they’re not written, but I think about him all my life. Everything I do, I think about these goals. And he went on and on and on. I said, so what is that goal? And he goes, I go to work every day and my goal is to break even. Yeah, that’s what… What? That’s a survival mindset if I ever heard it, but…


    Jason: Well, and what I know from people like that, right. Cause you see us with salespeople as well, which is if that’s their goal or their, they don’t believe or you know, that’s their benchmark of where they’re drawing the line is that when they do have that good day and a couple of deals closed and they in the positive they’re going, well I know that’s not going to last. Or I’m sure that was a fluke and then prove themselves right the next day when they go under, you know, back to breaking even, yeah, I told you so. It must’ve just been, you know, a lucky call. I got the good leads for once and uh, you know,


    Danny: Economy does suck. 


    Jason: Yeah. See it must be the economy


    Danny: Told you so told, you know, again, every great salesperson I’ve ever been around, and you, I’m sure you know this with all the good work you’re doing in coaching and consulting, I’m telling you, it just never ceases to amaze me that all the successful people have total continuous clarity. Search number one and number two they have that thriving attitude, mindset. You know, I, it’s just so important. And why is it so hard? Well, it’s so hard because we just fall into everybody around us. I think to be a great salesperson, you’ve got to almost change all your friends sometimes.


    Jason: Sometimes yes. So two parts I think change your friends, which can be hard for some people, but I would say at a minimum, depending on what your sales environment looks like, whether you’re in an office or whatnot, is change who you talk to at the office. So sometimes I even, I’ve told reps like change where you’re sitting because the people around you aren’t winning. They’re the break even people and you know the barely making quota people and you want to win. So stop sitting near them like they’re going to drag you down. They’re going to gossip, they’re going to talk, they’re going to distract you. You know, whenever I’ve been in sales, if it’s in like a, an office with cubicles or whatever situation, I’m like three rows separate from everyone else by myself on an Island. You know, I’m there to talk to the successful people, but I’m not there to just chit chat with the people who aren’t winning.


    Danny: Well, here’s a cool lesson that I learned the hard way, but I was always the last guy at work. I was always writing letters. I was always there making a final phone calls and people would say, Hey, why don’t you, let’s go have a beer. I go, now I a, I got to go finish my letters and such. But then I get criticized and I go, Oh, okay. And so I go out and then all they do is they were in gripe and groan. So I realized like I kind of put together this theory that well some people will do it unconsciously, but more than you would imagine people will do that to you consciously. Because if your extra work, will make you successful, and the more success you have, the worst these guys look. Yep. So some of them will do those negative conversations and talk around you and make you slow down and make you feel bad about, not going with the group. So they don’t look bad and you’re not too successful to show him up. So I’m with you 100% you’ve got to set yourself apart if you have to, you got to go get another room. Don’t ever come into the office if you don’t have to.


    Jason: And if that’s the environment of the company, seriously, look at changing companies. There’s enough companies out there in the world. There’s no reason to, to put up with that, if that’s also what’s tolerated by management and management is okay with the mediocrity and the complaining and the drama instead of, you know, rising up everybody and raising the bar and trimming the people who aren’t there to win. And again, there’s nothing wrong with people who aren’t there to win except for that they’re in a sales role and that’s performance-based, right. You know, if they’re okay with that, then go find a union job or an admin job or something like that, you know? And which is nothing wrong with that, but don’t try to put yourself into a sales box.


    Danny: No. You know, and again, people who won’t want to work as hard as you won’t be as committed as you were, I would say, look, mom always said, don’t put yourself on another level over people. But I think it’s okay in sales because if I go to another plateau, it’s okay. If I say look down on everybody and say, look, there’s a lot of room up here if you want to come up, but I’m not coming back down. And two or three will come up. Then I’ll go to another level and I’ll say, if you want to come up, come on. But I’m not going to sit around and take all this negativity cause it costs me money. And that’s what helps my family. And I always believe the work I do for my clients was something that they couldn’t get anywhere else and I’m going to help them be successful. So, you know, do you see that in your consulting and in coaching practice? I just see a lot of people aren’t successful because their partners are in or just negative. And they don’t know how to set themselves up.


    Jason: They don’t know how to set themselves apart. Sometimes they’re worried about doing too successful. Like let’s say it’s, you know, the sales rep level and they’re not willing to and or they’re not willing to put in the effort to just make it happen for themselves and they’re waiting for it to be handed to them. Instructions wise, you know, training skills. So back to what we’re talking about. Well, so I had a bunch of questions planned. I had mentioned in the very beginning, I have five questions I want to ask every guest and I’m super transparent to serve. You know, if anyone new is listening to the show and you’ve made it this far, you may not know this, but in my first season I’m very transparent. I, you know, if things work out or don’t work out, I’ll explain it. I have these five questions.


    Jason: My goal with season two was to ask my guests all these questions. So far I’ve recorded one of them where we barely went through them, but we ended up talking about anyway, this conversation, I could ask you those questions, but we’ve literally covered all of them in this almost hour long conversation, which I think is amazing. And anybody who knows me, my style is not like scripted planned questions. It’s a conversation, which is how I set it up so I didn’t get through my questions and, but you know for this here, so you know I’m going to put a bunch of your information on my website so people can find you. Find your book, upcoming books. Find you if they want your training, your coaching, you know, and we talked about this and anyone who knows me know that you know, theoretically, we’re kind of competitors in the same space, but we both, there’s so much business out there. If someone wants to work with you, that doesn’t mean anything about me. They like you, you have the experience that they may be looking for is different from me. So please make sure to check out Danny’s information. Where’s best place for them to find you if they’re interested in anything that you’ve done.


    Danny: Well, let me before I say it preps with the line that Zig Ziglar used to say all the time and it was basically help enough people get what they want. They live by it. I’ve got it behind my desk at both offices and I think that’s a great way to live your life. My website is www.realworldcoaching. What is a real business coach? I’ve got three or four. 


    Jason: You know, you have too many websites when you can’t keep track…


    Danny: realworldbusinesscoach.com yup. And if anybody wants to connect LinkedIn, you can find me very easy there. And I do a lot of work there and my first book was called a life best lived a story of life, death and second chances. And it’s really about most people sit around their life waiting for someone to give you a second chance when we have the ability to give ourselves a second, third and fourth.


    Danny: And it’s a powerful book based on some things that I went through. My new book series is going to be called straight talk on and we have a series of seven books coming out with the straight talk of headline and the first one is going to be straight talk on thriving business. And the second one, hopefully it’d be both of them will be out by Christmas, is straight talk on in. I don’t remember what the, what the publisher has decided on the final version is, but it’s a, it’s going to be on finding customers, finding prospects and it’s all a sales book about how to, cool way to find customers that I, I haven’t made a cold call in 14 years because I, I learned this technique. So anyway, www.realworldbusinesscoach.com. By the way, for everybody listening, this is, this is a great format. Jason does a great job at this because I get on a lot of them, so I hope you enjoy it and I hope you’ll listen.


    Jason: Oh, thank you. And I appreciate that coming from you. I know that you’ve been on a lot of podcasts and I appreciate you being here and for anyone listening, you can go to the cutterconsultinggroup.com website. The transcript will be there. All of Danny’s links will be on there. Everything to find where he’s at. And again, Danny, thanks for uh, thanks for taking the time and chatting. Some a straight talk sales stuff here for sure.


    Danny: Thank you so much. I, I’d like to come back.


    Jason: Yeah, we should do a follow-up. Uh, definitely, uh, especially once you launch some more projects, we can do a followup series on this for sure.


    Danny: We can act, we can talk more questions. 


    Jason: Maybe we’ll go through my questions next time, so for sure. Thank you. Appreciate it. And, uh, everybody as always, keep in mind that everything in life is sales like we were just talking about, and people remember the experience you gave them.




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The Balance of Effort in Sales The blogs this week have been about the other person going most of the way. Whether it’s a prospective customer and your salesperson, where the salesperson truly can’t want the deal or make most of it happen for that customer to truly be successful. On the path for that prospect to becoming a customer, they should go at least 51/49. Whether it’s your team and their manager, the manager can’t want the team to succeed more than the team actually wants it for themselves. It’s not scalable for the coach (manager) to run on the field every play to win the game for the salespeople. What about sales ops processes and systems? What about the tools available to the sales team and the ones that are classified as sales enablement? In a reversal of philosophy, I believe the sales ops processes should go 90, the team should only have to go 10. Why Do We Need Salespeople? Let’s start where it matters – what is the point of having salespeople? I know many owners question the need and desire to have salespeople. They are hard to manage, tough to deal with, always want more money (potentially for doing less work and closing less deals), and are very resistant to change. Of course, that is a generalization. Of course, there are salespeople who don’t check those boxes. However, having worked with a lot of teams in a lot of industries, that generalization isn’t completely wrong or unfair. So if there is even a small part of that which is accurate, why would we even mess with the messiness of having salespeople? Of needing to employ and manage humans? The Human Element in Sales We need them. That’s why. Even in 2025, AI and technology has not successfully replicated the requirements of sales – which is about helping a human (prospect/customer) make the right decision and move outside of their comfort zone to buy something new. It still takes your human (salesperson) to persuade that other human. It’s why I say all the time that its not B2B, B2C, Retail, SaaS, etc. – it’s H2H. Sure, people can buy something online or even in a store without speaking to someone. But if it’s a considered purchase where there are options and decisions to be considered – it still takes a human being involved. That means ultimately your human (salesperson) has one job, and one job only – persuade the right prospective humans to buy. Minimizing Distractions for Salespeople Everything outside of that mission, task, focus is a distraction that takes away from their highest and best use. Imagine if we had a surgeon who had to prep the room, prep the patient, schedule the surgery and meetings, and do all the parts of the surgery themselves. Nope – they show up for the surgery and do what they do best. Then they take off their gown, gloves, and walk away to get cleaned up and move on to the next thing. Your goal as a sales ops leader is to support the team with systems and processes that allow them to focus on the one thing you need them for. The human part. It would be amazing if they could show up, talk to people, and make sales happen. Of course, there is more that they (and any professional) need to do before, during, and after the sales conversation. But your goal is to minimize all that. Every hour that your salespeople aren’t selling or doing sales-related activities, they aren’t moving revenue forward. The Ultimate Goal of Sales Ops What processes can you put in place that go 90 percent of the way, where the salesperson can do the last 10 percent? An example would be building an email campaign that runs automatically, and when the right people reply, the salesperson gets involved in getting that person from email to phone call. Another example would be your CRM serving up people for the salesperson to call – leads or anyone in the sales pipeline flow – with all the backstory, research, data, intel needed for them to review it then take action. What can you put into place that takes away as much distraction and effort from your sales team such that they can focus on the one thing you need to focus on – other humans?
By Jason Cutter February 12, 2025
The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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