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E118: Straight Talk with Danny Creed – Part 2 of 4

January 4, 2024


How do you perceive the importance of the lost art of listening in the world of sales?


My guest for this week is Danny Creed. We have a fun back-and-forth conversation about sales. This is part 1 of the 4-part mini-series.

In Part 1, Danny and I talk about:


  • Straight Talk
  • Knowing who your buyer is
  • Performance marketing vs. brand marketing
  • Foundational sales stuff
  • Sales professionals and 10,000 hours


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Danny’s Info:

Real World, Master Business Coach Danny Creed is an international master business and executive coach, business consultant; trainer, best-selling author, international keynote and workshop speaker and experienced entrepreneur and business owner. (www.realworldbusinesscoach.com). He is a recognized expert in sales, management, and start-up business strategic planning. He is a business turnaround and marketing specialist with a strong emphasis on business and personal development.

Danny is a 
Brian Tracy International Certified Business Coach and Sales Trainer. Coach Dan has logged to date nearly 15,000 business coaching, consulting and training hours. He has been involved with 15 successful start-up businesses and over 400 business turnaround challenges. Dan commits himself to over 200 hours of continuing education to enhance his coaching skills. Coach Dan is the SIX-time recipient of the FocalPoint International Brian Tracy Award of Sales Excellence.

Danny Creed is a published author. His first book, BOOTSTRAP BUSINESS, was a collaborative effort with world-renowned business development experts, Tom Hopkins (How to Master the Art of Selling), John Christensen (FISH!) and Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul). His second, 
A Life Best Lived; A story of Life, Death and Second Chances is available worldwide on Amazon.com and Audible at http://www.businesscoachdan.com/author/

Danny Creed’s next books, 
Straight Talk on Surviving and Thriving in Business and Straight Talk on Finding Customers: The Champions Network, are planned for a Christmas 2019 release. He is also widely published in numerous magazines around the world including Business Coach Magazine, serving all of Eastern Europe and Business Venezuela, the magazine of the Venezuelan American Chamber of Commerce.

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Hello and welcome back to the sales experience podcast. My name is Jason Cutter. I’m so glad that you’re here. In part two of my conversation with Danny creed, picking up where we left off talking about sales, talking about the sales process, what it takes to be successful, you know, mentors learning all of that. We cover here in part two and so make sure you check that out. Of course, like I keep mentioning, if you want to find Danny’s links before he mentions them at the end, go to cutterconsultinggroup.com/podcast, find the episode. You’ll see all his links, his bio. Reach out to him. Also reach out to me. You can find the transcript there. Now enjoy part two


    Jason: But work ethic as far as learning and putting in the time and studying on your own and becoming a professional and treating it like a profession. Right? Like a doctor doesn’t just show up and then put in the hours like they’re studying and all of these extracurricular things. Then that’s how I know when somebody has it or not is when I say like, you know, what are you reading or what kind of stuff are you watching? What are you listening to? And if they’re not, right, if it’s all about game of Thrones versus you know, something that developed them and it’s going to be a struggle.


    Danny: Well, you know, it’s an interesting point bring up because I kind of went through this personally, but I believe as a sales professional, that, that I can be on the same level as any doctor or a lawyer, psychiatrist one on one, if I’m willing to learn by mistakes if I couldn’t finish college. My father died young, I had to take care of my family. And if you go around the corner here in the next room is my library room and I have almost 2000 business books in there. You know, every time I needed to learn something or needed to learn, get better at negotiation or learn different tactics or something, I bought the books I bought. I’ve got a lot of, just because I have them over here in this corner in my office, I have a whole stack of cassettes. For those of you who are younger, you know, look it up in the dictionary.


    Danny: You know, Wikipedia, it’s a little plastic bag. Anyway, we got those. We borrowed them, we rented them. We, we saved up our money. But we learned in, it’s all what you’re willing to do. It’s all what you’re willing to give up. You know, when I talk about work ethics, I’ll be a little controversial again. But I believe that if you’re in sales, you don’t have hours. No. I mean, and you should, every great salesperson I’ve ever seen has had goals much bigger than what I was given, by the company. And we knew that I was very successful when I was working in radio. I spent a number of years selling radio time and working in marketing and people couldn’t figure out what my secret sauce was. Well, it was just, I figured out that I had about a 40-30 mile drive every morning and every night and I figured out while everyone else was heading home. I was heading home, but I knew that there was a business out there. I can stop that on my way, on my way home and my way to work in the morning. So at the end of the week, I made 10 more sales calls than any other rep in the market. That’s it. And I remember I were in the Midwest and I made a sales call regularly on a farm implement dealer that the only time he was the decision makers there was five o’clock in the morning. So I sat in a snowstorm with a box of donuts waiting for him to come in. But I sold him every month for years, you know, because I was the only guy that would show up. And do that, you know, but it comes back to are you doing it for a paycheck? Are you doing it? Be a salesperson? Because you know the elements of sales, again, I mentioned the foundational recipe.


    Danny: One of those is metrics. You know, one of them is time management. In fact, I take it past time management, but it’s really more about priority management. Yes, that totally. It’s not about managing the time anymore. It’s not about getting everything done. It’s about being able to understand what priorities you have and manage the timing about getting those done. And in sales, that’s everything. Are you taking two hours to go play pinball someplace and then griping you? You know, you don’t have enough customers? Well, I’m pretty deaf ears when it comes as you know, junk like that, you know? So priority management and goals, you know, I want to go, don’t even get me started on goals. I did a workshop this afternoon. It’s just incredible to me. How many people, literally they say 70% of our society has no goals. 28% says they haven’t, but they aren’t written.


    Danny: 2% has in our society has goals and it’s some incredible number. So U S a did they report, this is like 96% of all wealth is held in that 2% that has written goals. And I guarantee you they’re salespeople, the world revolves around that and you don’t want something else that makes me mad. You know something else that makes me mad is when people go thumb their nose at salespeople. Yeah. Well, you know, I’m not a salesperson, you know, so I, Oh baloney. Look, if you’ve ever asked a girl out on a date or vice versa, if you’ve ever tried to get a raise from your boss, if you’ve negotiated with your kids, you’re selling something. You know, and so the foundational rules of selling, everybody needs to learn. I tell young entrepreneurs, I travel all over the world talking to them, they say, well, what do I need to do to be successful in sales? I go, well, first of all, take a sales course. Do something, read some books. But you’ve got to agree of entrepreneurship. You’ve got to understand you’ve got the learn to sell. You have to. So will you agree with that?


    Jason: I do. And that’s why like at the end of my end of every episode I say, you know, everything in life is sales and you know, it’s foundational. Like you said, everything, parenting. Even when you were a kid or a teenager trying to get something from your parents, it was sales and it was you versus them. And it’s interesting because if we want to be super honest, anybody listening to this as an adult, look at your life and look at what you have in your life or the results you get from the people in your life. And that is pretty much all the feedback. If you take the time to be honest and open with how you come across and your persuasion style and your sales style in life will tell you, right? Do you have a relationship where the person doesn’t want to do stuff with you or they do or kids or work?


    Jason: Do your boss not listen to you? If you’re a manager to your people, not listen to you, like whatever that looks like. That’s feedback on your selling skills. And uh, I think it’s interesting to you, you said that sales, you know, people don’t want to identify themselves with sales. And that’s because the downside is a lot of bad intending people get into sales and they’ve ruined the sales connotation where people are embarrassed to be called a sales person, right? That’s why they’re account executives and business development reps instead of “I’m a salesperson.” And that’s, you know, one of the fundamental things for my podcast and as well as like the consulting and coaching I do, is to shift that and help people, help all the salespeople in the world change that, you know, mindset in the eyes of consumers where ultimately in my goal is somebody could walk into a store or phone in and you know, with the goal of potentially buying something and be excited because they’re met by somebody who they know A.)is going to make some money from the sale, but B.) is going to help them and that’s going to be the priority versus, you know, just the straight commission because that’s what happens.


    Jason: Right? You know, if you walk into a car lot, you know why that person’s happy, excited  has run up to your car, we’ll get you whatever you want because they’re gonna make money off of you. And then that’s when the battle ensues in most people’s mind. Cause it’s us versus them. And that’s what messes it up for a lot of people who are in sales and they repel it. Right? Like those entrepreneurs you’re talking about, I’m not a salesperson, I’m a tech person, or I’m an entrepreneur. It’s like, Oh, you’re a salesperson. Just do it. Right. That’s all.


    Danny: Yeah. Yeah. And you’ll be broke. Say I created a great, I keep product. Yup. But no one bought it. Well did you go sell it?


    Jason: And I see those people and I’ve talked to those people all the time where they’ve got this great idea, but they don’t know how to sell it. They don’t want to sell it. They don’t like the idea of sales this day and age. You know, we’re recording this in 2019. A lot of people I come across, they just want to throw their product online and hope that the internet sells it for them without any phone calls, without any conversation, with some level of product, maybe most, you know, consumers still need some help.


    Danny: Still has to be. So, and there’s two foundational things I’d like to mention with the time we have. One of those is I think is really important, is that I believe that the lost art and worldwide business, let alone the art of selling the lost art, is the art of listening. I’m telling you, it’s, you know, with cell phones, computers, all the things that we have available to us, the bottom line simply is that people don’t want to be told anything. And many people are still being trained to sell by coming in and say, let me tell you all the reasons you ought to buy. And I’m telling you, I’ve been with people observing and I’ve seen him kicked out of the office. Cause the client or prospect will say, well, you should have known that. I mean you’re telling me why I should buy and you’ve never asked me any questions.


    Danny: You are, you ought to know the basics of what I need and so we ought to get to it. Which was the second thing is so learn how to listen and if you can then shut up and guess what the prospect’s going to tell you how to sell them because it happens so little. I’m convinced that no matter what the personality profile, that if you actually act like you’re actually serious about listening to their needs, from their point of view, they’re going to give you a sale. In fact, I get to the point where I say, look, don’t sell anything to anybody but let a whole bunch of people buy something from you. And the way you do that is listen. And the second thing is just understanding. You know folks that’s listening to this look, they get nervous. They come in and they talk about the ballgame. They talk about the weather and everything else. I had an old mentor back in the 70s who taught me this lesson and he said, “look, I know why you’re here.” I go, “why am I here?” He goes “to sell me something, so get to it.” Look, they know why you’re there. If they let you out the door, they know you’re there to sell them.


    Jason: Yeah, but you’ve got to do your you, but you’ve got to check the box on building rapport, right? Isn’t that what you’re supposed to do? Walk in. You see their trophy fish. If you’re doing like business to business and you see their fishermen and then you talk about fishing, right? Is that what shows to do


    Danny: years ago it just not working anymore because of the cell phone and all the, the access we have, you know, I saw a young salesman go in, but he wasn’t so young, but he waited until a prospect, crusty old guy and he goes, you know, thank you for our appointment today. Uh, you know, before we get started, tell me a little about your business. This guy knows you can leave. What do you mean I can leave? He goes, you should’ve checked that last night. You could have checked press releases, my website and all that stuff. You should know that. We shouldn’t have to talk about that. So now we’re back to listening. We’re back to understanding. They know why you’re there. So get to it, you know, try to learn something about them so you don’t tell you ask, you know, and you’re always going to be better off. You’re always gonna be better off.


    Jason: Yeah, I completely agree. You know, if you can, right, let’s say you’re outbounding or showing up for an appointment with somebody, then do your research and know about them. Even if it’s business to consumer. I’ve spent a lot of time business to consumer and I will learn a lot of stuff about somebody if it’s, you know, longer sales cycle appointment-based versus you know, an inbound direct mail call and I’ve got one shot that’s a little bit different. But literally consumer business learn something. If you’re going into it, if they’re calling you, that’s a different approach and they’re asking you for the business. You’ve got to handle that. But yeah, I completely agree. If there’s two things I ever want anybody in sales or life to listen is one or here is one is ask questions and come from a place of curiosity where you’re asking questions to understand the other person and then actually listen when they’re talking, instead of thinking about, you’re going to say next thinking about what you’re going to respond with thinking about your strategy and actually listen for what’s said and what’s not said and then, but with all of the intention of actually helping the other person get to a better situation or feel heard or feel cared about whatever you’re selling and it doesn’t matter what you’re selling, you could be selling cars and ask questions.


    Jason: Listen, make the person feel like you’re helping them and their situation. Like that’s what I say all the time. Like I’ve never sold a product only services but if I were to sell like cars cause I’m like kind of a car guy is it would be really easy for me cause I’d ask questions, I figured out what they want, figuring out what they need, point them in one direction. Here’s the one car you said based on what you want and you know, do you want it in red or blue? Really that’s it. Instead of monologuing and high pressure and all of that crap,


    Danny: You know, you know, I’ll tell you something, I really believe in that. I think I can sell anything cause because I know how to sell. I can go anywhere and learn size, shape and color doesn’t matter, but it doesn’t matter. I can sell car, I can sell any product put in front of me because I’m going to ask questions and I, but I know how to sell and I can bring experts in. I can ask lots of questions like, you know, now the foundation, like you said, the hard part is where people will hire somebody who’s really product-oriented and say, well, we’ll teach them how to sell. Nope, it doesn’t work that way. I, I had a triple bypass heart surgery a few years ago and I always use the example, you know, if you know you’re going to have to have surgery, you want a guy that says I’m the best doctor in all the country.


    Danny: I’ll be taking care of you really well or you want a guy who goes, well, I’m pretty good at this and I have YouTube up. You know, I’m still learning. Yeah, I want the pro. There’s not even a question because he’s been through it. He understands what’s going on and sometimes that perception is created by asking questions, by not coming in. And I’ll just share a line that I use all the time, but it’s very powerful and it’s in one of my upcoming books. But it’s a term that you get into this. And when I’m asking you say, can we sit down and talk a little bit, you know, and let’s find out together if it makes sense that we should work together because I’m not right for everyone. So can I ask you three questions to see if it makes sense that we should work together or not? And I’m telling you, I’ve had big tough guys when I say I’m not right for everyone, they turn around and go, “what do you mean you’re not right for me?” And then I, you know, it’s just like, okay, that’s dialogue, man.


    Jason: That’s it for this second segment of the four-part mini-series with Danny and I, I hope you’re enjoying this as much as we did when we were recording it, and, uh, we’ll see you next time on part three for the sales experience podcast.


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The Balance of Effort in Sales The blogs this week have been about the other person going most of the way. Whether it’s a prospective customer and your salesperson, where the salesperson truly can’t want the deal or make most of it happen for that customer to truly be successful. On the path for that prospect to becoming a customer, they should go at least 51/49. Whether it’s your team and their manager, the manager can’t want the team to succeed more than the team actually wants it for themselves. It’s not scalable for the coach (manager) to run on the field every play to win the game for the salespeople. What about sales ops processes and systems? What about the tools available to the sales team and the ones that are classified as sales enablement? In a reversal of philosophy, I believe the sales ops processes should go 90, the team should only have to go 10. Why Do We Need Salespeople? Let’s start where it matters – what is the point of having salespeople? I know many owners question the need and desire to have salespeople. They are hard to manage, tough to deal with, always want more money (potentially for doing less work and closing less deals), and are very resistant to change. Of course, that is a generalization. Of course, there are salespeople who don’t check those boxes. However, having worked with a lot of teams in a lot of industries, that generalization isn’t completely wrong or unfair. So if there is even a small part of that which is accurate, why would we even mess with the messiness of having salespeople? Of needing to employ and manage humans? The Human Element in Sales We need them. That’s why. Even in 2025, AI and technology has not successfully replicated the requirements of sales – which is about helping a human (prospect/customer) make the right decision and move outside of their comfort zone to buy something new. It still takes your human (salesperson) to persuade that other human. It’s why I say all the time that its not B2B, B2C, Retail, SaaS, etc. – it’s H2H. Sure, people can buy something online or even in a store without speaking to someone. But if it’s a considered purchase where there are options and decisions to be considered – it still takes a human being involved. That means ultimately your human (salesperson) has one job, and one job only – persuade the right prospective humans to buy. Minimizing Distractions for Salespeople Everything outside of that mission, task, focus is a distraction that takes away from their highest and best use. Imagine if we had a surgeon who had to prep the room, prep the patient, schedule the surgery and meetings, and do all the parts of the surgery themselves. Nope – they show up for the surgery and do what they do best. Then they take off their gown, gloves, and walk away to get cleaned up and move on to the next thing. Your goal as a sales ops leader is to support the team with systems and processes that allow them to focus on the one thing you need them for. The human part. It would be amazing if they could show up, talk to people, and make sales happen. Of course, there is more that they (and any professional) need to do before, during, and after the sales conversation. But your goal is to minimize all that. Every hour that your salespeople aren’t selling or doing sales-related activities, they aren’t moving revenue forward. The Ultimate Goal of Sales Ops What processes can you put in place that go 90 percent of the way, where the salesperson can do the last 10 percent? An example would be building an email campaign that runs automatically, and when the right people reply, the salesperson gets involved in getting that person from email to phone call. Another example would be your CRM serving up people for the salesperson to call – leads or anyone in the sales pipeline flow – with all the backstory, research, data, intel needed for them to review it then take action. What can you put into place that takes away as much distraction and effort from your sales team such that they can focus on the one thing you need to focus on – other humans?
By Jason Cutter February 12, 2025
The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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