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[E283] Leading As A CRO, with Christine Bottagaro (Part 3)

January 17, 2024


How do you ensure that your compensation plan is aligned with the goals of your organization?


You can’t just dust off an old compensation plan. To boost productivity, you have to speed up on modern trends and align your comp plan to what you want your salespeople to achieve.


Start with what you want to achieve. And make sure your comp plan recognizes that. You want to make sure that you’re rewarding the behavior that the organization wants. It can get complex if you have cross product. And that’s where you want to make sure if it’s a team effort that the team is rewarded when the team succeeds.


Be intentional and proactive. Here’s the comp plan – here’s how you will win – here’s what we want you to focus on. It’s not hand holding. But it’s partnering. It’s collaboration.


It is about putting value on their performance and concrete contribution.


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Christine’s Bio

A challenge-seeker, Christine loves tech, focusing on building storylines, high-performing teams, and pipeline through Sales and Marketing functions. Happiest when collaborating, innovating, and delivering, Christine marries strategy with execution. Christine’s leadership roles at Sybase, SAP, Rally, Rogue Wave, and Kapost give her deep experience in tech go-to-markets, customer connections, and acquisitions.


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  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome back to the sales experience podcast. My name again is Jason Cutter. This is part three of my conversation with Christine Bottagaro. And if you didn't catch it, make sure to listen to the first two parts because it'll make a lot more sense, obviously, but we're going to keep on talking about sales reps, compensation plans.


    Just everything from that perspective of the Chief Revenue Officer role, which I think is very important for bringing everyone together and for alignment on the team, for the team, for the company, and for the customers. So here you go. Part three. Enjoy.


    Christine: All of those things. And that's why, again, it led me closer and closer to the edge of sales to say, how does this big machine work from quotas and comp through the marketing engine through to closed one and retention?


    Jason: Have you found a ideal type of compensation plan for a sales rep because you could go really complex and like telephone book manual with lots of rules or super short.


    Christine: I have to say I haven't seen that many Jason where I found the perfect one. And again, I would say you start with what you want to achieve and it can be even within a business year.


    It doesn't have to be like, this is our corporate goal for the next millennial. But For this year, what do we want to have happen if it's organic growth and you better make sure that your comp recognizes that I think where it can get complex and where I've seen businesses make bad decisions is If you have cross product and if you're trying to do something where Jason, I want you to have quota for yes, your core product, but also if you sell this other stuff and you can handle that with spiffs and some one off, but shared quotas, they can get complex.


    But where I've seen mistakes made is when people. And it could be on the CFO side, they get really parsimonious with the comp. And that's where you want to make sure, if it's a team effort, that the team is rewarded when the team succeeds. And there's this, I don't want to double comp, and that kind of mentality, I think, is fair.


    But you really have to, again, say, what do we want to have happen? If we want to cross sell into our user base, we have to make sure the mechanics support that. And if an SC is A sales engineer or somebody on the tech side is very involved. Are they being comped accordingly? Or are they going to focus on install base because that's their comp plan?


    So I think you can make it overly complex is one mistake. And the other is being a little bit short sighted in terms of paying for good thing to pay for it. And then maybe in a year after you've got that growth, then you revisit. Or you say, this quarter, we're going to double comp on X and Y. Wow, weird how it happens, right?


    And then at the end of the quarter, you revisit it. And say, you know what, that was too expensive. Our cost of acquisition was too high. Let's talk about what that looks like to dial it down. Or give all of that quota to a SDR, BVR, ISR, something else.


    Jason: No, that's a great point, Christina, and I know because I've seen so many comp plans and dealt with them, that there is that balance between complex, the complexity that's usually because you're trying to cover all the loopholes or steer the behavior in a certain way.


    And salespeople are very creative. Most humans are very creative, but salespeople are very creative. So you got to be careful where you put the money and then where you put the consequences and you got to outline all that. So you can get really deep and really in the weeds and making it also really easy for them to figure out how much did they make.


    That's one of the things that most successful teams will do. It's like I closed a deal. I just made X, right? Not I have to go into this formula and then I have to consult with this team. And then we have to run this program to tell me how much I might make.


    Christine: I learned this from one of my previous sales partners.


    And he said, there's the Denny's day that happens right after you hand out comp plans. And I never heard of this. I was like, what are you talking about? And he said, you give out your comp plans. And that's another thing is often I've seen those delayed. If you're starting the year, you better have those ready.


    It can't be three months down the road. But anyway. That's a separate topic. The reps will go to Denny's and get that big pot of coffee and sit there and figure out how they're going to make their quota with what they have. Can I make it just on renewals? Can I make it just on this? That's the Denny's exercise.


    And so I think you have to be cognizant of that. And again, go to what behavior do you want them to have? And at the end of it, maybe that Denny's exercise is exactly what you want the organization to do. Which is I need to go find new business or we need to retain customers. Great, but just make sure that those two are in line.


    Jason: And I have rolled out many a comp plan and what I have got into the habit of doing is exactly what you're saying, but facilitating it intentionally and proactively, which is here's the comp plan. Here's how I see that you can win. And here's what we want you to focus on. And this is to the whole team based on your pipeline, based on your activities, based on what you've been doing.


    If you do this, and this. You will win in this way. And this is what it will look like if you're already doing X, here's what it's going to be like in the new comp plan, focus on this, or you have options, like you said, you have renewals, you have this here's the different ways to win.


    Here's what I would do for all of these. Cause my brain goes into sales mode. My brain goes into loophole finding mode, which makes me good at building the comp plan, but then also helping them win. It's here's the rules to monopoly. And here's what I would do if I wanted to win the game.


    Christine: I love the, it's not handholding, but again, it's partnering.


    I want to make sure that my manager, that my sales team is in lockstep with what I'm thinking. So using the whiteboard behind you and just saying, how are we going to get there? And I love one on one and think about it too, Jason. I wonder if you couldn't do like team, get all your AEs together and then you get some sharing.


    And then you get maybe some good behaviors that come out that's actually, if I bring in these four and that, somebody's yeah, okay, I got four, I can target. So the power of working through that instead of here's your comp plan, go get your pot of coffee and come back with your numbers, right?


    I love that partnership, that collaboration, that's pretty powerful.


    Jason: And I also really always want my reps and teams to know that I know the loopholes. I know what they're going to try. I know what they're thinking. I know what I've already plugged. I know what we're watching in the reports now because we've built those as new metrics.


    And don't try it, right? Raising kids, don't try it. Like we'll already, we'll know. I'll know don't and not to control them, but just to help them win. It's don't try to go over here. Here's the way we want you to go. If everyone goes this direction, we're all going to win.


    Christine: I also think it will expose the motivation behind the reps.


    And as you and I were talking about, I think it was a couple of weeks back, but the people that are going to be like. If I just make my number, I'm good. Like I'm close to retirement. I don't want to pick on that group of people, but that's a personal experience. Instead of the people who are like, what is it going to take for me to hit accelerator?


    And then how do I get there? And I think through that exercise, Jason, as you outlined, you will identify the people who are going to try to hit their accelerators or the people that are like, okay, I'm good with this quota. And again, just understanding that maybe that's okay. Or maybe you want to put that person in a role that's more on the maintenance side or something like, I think you'll see the sales rep in a different way.


    They'll show up differently.


    Jason: And you put them where they want to be if you have space in your organization. If you need account management or renewals or some kind of maintenance where it's like it's not hunting, it's more farming. Then if you have the capacity, that's great. Put them there, build that team around them.


    It's valuable. It's generating revenue. Hunters, killers do a terrible job at account management because they want the next big thing and they don't want a long term relationship necessarily like some of the people I'm thinking like they want short term. Yeah. And so just build it to win.


    Christine: Yeah, exactly.


    And that's part of the DNA, right? Is that In interviews. That's one trick I think that we have is sales and marketing people interview very well, and we all have our success stories and things. And then when they show up to work, it can look differently. So how do you find a way for them to be successful?


    Finding that rep that's willing to do the cold calls, finding the rep that only wants to go out and hunt and see people face to face and putting them in a way, in a place that they can win at that,


    Jason: speaking of which, because that was, this is one area I want to talk about with salespeople in particular.


    How have you found a way to identify that through the interview process? Because good salespeople are mediocre and good salespeople are good at selling themselves in interviews if nothing else.


    Christine: Yeah, it's true. And I think I'm always one for detail. And so people will use these platitudes or these generalities around I did this and that.


    It's okay, tell me exactly how you made that happen. And then I'm pretty. Quick to figure out how involved they were, or it doesn't, that's not necessarily a good thing, or they were smart enough to say, then I knew I had to bring in my tech team. I was out of my element, but I wanted to make sure that we kept the ball rolling, blah, blah, blah.


    So can you give me the details behind what happened? Or were you a little bit on the sidelines of that? How often did you talk to this customer? What did you find was the compelling event? What did you understand about their business before that first call? So I tend to hone in when somebody says.


    Yeah, I got 38 percent growth in one quarter. I'm like, okay, walk me through that. Where did those leads come from? How did you manage that? Were you working with this team? And then through the details, you understand the level of involvement, their expertise, the value that they brought and what that customer interaction truly looks like.


    And I always have them do an exercise too. And this is true on the marketing side is whatever the role is. You're going to present or you're going to write a paper or you're going to write some code like there is an exercise that's going to be germane to the business, but will help me understand how you approach a problem or an issue or a challenge and then how you're going to work through it and that you can tell a lot from those things.


    But then at the end of the day, you hope for the best and. Sometimes you don't win. There have been some bad hires on my book. And I think one of the bigger mistakes I made Jason early on is to think that I could coach somebody through that because I'd always built high performing teams from like interns and people who are, I don't know, pharmacists, right?


    Like coming from all walks of life and I could build them up, but you spend a lot of cycles on that. And at some point you're sacrificing the business and your own credibility. And I realized I was serving myself with the storyline of being that really great coach and development person versus what I really needed to deliver to the business.


    And so finding that balance was a good learning for me.


    Jason: I can totally relate to that. And I think there's so many leaders out there that if you, because I attribute it to myself of being always optimistic, always glasses half full, always seeing the best in people, even if they can't see it in themselves.


    Which makes somebody a good coach and a good leader because you just see it and you want to encourage it. But balancing that with if they don't believe it or they're not going to put in the effort. And I'm the only one working in this relationship and seeing this possibility. That's where I've learned to draw the line and cut it off.


    Which is, I know you can do this. I'm going to give you coaching. Here's your action steps. Come back when you're ready and we'll get to the next step. Or here's a book. I recommend you read it. Let me know when you've read it. And I check in a few weeks later and they're like, no, I haven't read it yet. It's okay, that's all I need to know.


    Like my work is done here because you don't want to do the effort.


    Christine: Yeah. It's tricky.


    Jason: Are you in the fire fast or fire slow?


    Christine: I think I'm leaning towards fire fast. But to your point, I want to make sure that there's a fit. Have we put somebody in a role where they cannot be successful? Have we taken somebody who's a great sales rep and made them a manager and then expect them to be a great manager?


    Have we done the reverse and taken a manager and made them go out and hit the streets and they're not really comfortable with that. So some of it can be a bad decision on the organization's part, but I think you get signals pretty quickly. And when people are unhappy and that's the thing is it always feels like it's put upon like you can either turn somebody or not.


    But the reality is that if they're not doing a great job, they don't feel good about it. Have that conversation. That's a Jason. No, I know you'd be a stellar. You never Bob. Yeah. You never know. That's true. Hey Bob, this really feels like a struggle lately. Tell me what's going on. And because I think we have to make a change and have that real conversation and you never know, maybe there's something on the personal side.


    Like I would want to be empathetic and Hey, take some time. We'll backfill or you know what? I really love the sales ops. I want to move into that. I'm like then let's talk about that. So yeah, I think. Maybe a little faster to conversation, maybe not as fast to pull the paperwork.


    Jason: All right. That's it for part three.


    And as always, I will see you tomorrow for the final part of my conversation with Christine Baragaro. And if you haven't yet, make sure to look her up on LinkedIn, or you can go to resurface. io and I will catch you tomorrow. That's it for another episode of the sales experience podcast. Thank you so

    much for listening.


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The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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