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[E281] Leading As A CRO, with Christine Bottagaro (Part 1)

January 17, 2024



What does collaboration mean beyond just agreeing on ideas? 


When we think about a collaboration mindset, we probably think about teams. If teams are not on the same page – the time, money, and effort spent will all be wasted. Seriously, who can afford that? Collaborating may not be a natural thing for some individuals. But how can we restructure our approach and see success from it?


Collaboration is more than just seeing things eye to eye. Collaboration is working together. In the revenue operations pipeline, it is about bridging the gap and abolishing the divide between sales, marketing, customer service retention, revenue operations, and all other functions under the umbrella. It means working on the same goals and overlapping of responsibilities. It means working for each other, not to get ahead of the other. 


In this podcast, Christine Bottagaro shares her experience on how a collaborative environment has driven her, her team, and their business to succeed. She also shares how understanding the business inside out has made her look at every function holistically which is critical in collaboration.


Once you listen, understand, and walk through those other disciplines, you will have empathy for what the challenges others face. You can navigate a pathway to better understand and know how to piece things together to drive teamwork and collaboration. Teamwork does not come naturally to everyone. But rethinking your approach and learning what it takes to develop a collaborative team are the keys to building effective teams.




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Christine’s Bio

A challenge-seeker, Christine loves tech, focusing on building storylines, high-performing teams, and pipeline through Sales and Marketing functions. Happiest when collaborating, innovating, and delivering, Christine marries strategy with execution. Christine’s leadership roles at Sybase, SAP, Rally, Rogue Wave, and Kapost give her deep experience in tech go-to-markets, customer connections, and acquisitions.


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Linkedin – www.linkedin.com/in/christinebottagaro
Website – https://resurface.io 

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Hey, what's going on. Welcome to the sales experience podcast. So glad that you're here on this guest episode. I have miss Christine, but Ticario and she is. Currently the chief revenue officer at resurface labs. And she loves technology, focusing on building storylines, high performing teams and pipelines through sales and marketing functions.


    As she told me and sent me, she's happiest when collaborating, innovating and delivering. And she marries strategies. with execution. And what's interesting is that she is in this CRO role, chief revenue officer role, and it's been under a year and she's kind of doing it all. She's a single person sales team for the company as it's starting up and growing, but she has a long.


    Lineage in being in roles of support product to marketing to sales and seeing the whole cycle and working her way up and through different departments in leadership roles at places like Cybase, S. A. P. Rally, Rogue Wave, K Post, where she got a lot of experience taking tech and going to market customer connections, acquisitions and all of that in our conversation that we have.


    We go end to end. So we talk about the CRO role and bridging sales, marketing, and all those revenue ops departments and the challenges that can happen with that. We talk about sales. We talk about recruiting and deciding on when somebody should stay or go. And how do you help people win in their role and what it's like, we talk about compensation plans.


    And then we even talk about the marketing side and web forms and how much information you should have on your forms on your website to get the right people to your team based on what your goals are. So here you go. Hopefully you enjoy this and make sure to connect with Christine best place. You can find her on LinkedIn is a great place to go.


    You can also go to resurface. io, but here you go. Enjoy this conversation that I had with Christine. Christine, welcome to the sales experience podcast.


    Christine: Well, thank you. It's nice to be part of this and it's a good day to do it on a Friday.


    Jason: Yeah, I am excited. Any chance that I have to talk to someone from the CRO community, if you will, somebody who's bridging that gap.


    I mean, anyone who's heard me talk or read anything from me knows that I want to do everything I can to abolish that divide between sales, marketing, sales. And everybody, if you will. And so I'm super supportive of this, what feels like a new title of Chief Revenue Officer.


    Christine: Yeah, it's cool. And speaking of new, I am a new CRO.


    So I've never carried that title before. So we'll learn together. That's for sure.


    Jason: Well, which is fascinating because I had Daryl Prail from Vanilla Soft on the show recently. And he is a newly minted CRO. He spent a lot of time in sales in the past and then has been doing marketing for years. And then became a CRO at Vanilla Soft and his was the same thing.


    Like he's learning and we were talking about his kind of first. 30, 60, 90 day journey. How long have you been in the CRO role? Like specifically?


    Christine: Now, this is a good question. I started talking to the resurface folks, the team. So I'm one of the co founders. So this is earlier than I've ever been in. So lots of challenge there right around.


    early April. So it's been a few months and we're in funding rounds and all kinds of startup stuff. So I thought now's the time to start carrying the bag and really own that part of the business. So it's been very cool to partner and learn along the way.


    Jason: And you mean carry the bag as the old school term of getting out there and selling.


    Christine: Yeah, I'm getting out there and selling and like right now I am the sales rep. So it's really interesting to know that the outcomes of conversations and next steps are on me. I don't kind of have to look at the other end of the table and say, okay, this is your job, do it. So it's on me and that's both exhilarating and frightening at the same time.


    Jason: Super funny thought as you're talking. I'm wondering if sales person Christine inside complains to marketing Christine about the leads.


    Christine: Yeah, exactly. She does. Yeah. And then the marketing, Christine complains about the lack of activity on the sales side. So you know, it's one thing to think about signing up for it.


    It's another thing to have that responsibility. But that's something that I've always felt really close to throughout my whole career. I've always partnered with people collaborating. And so it's never like you do this, I do that. It's how do we all kind of focus on the same outcomes and make sure that success for all of us is defined similarly.


    Jason: Where do you think that comes from? Because it's almost like you either have that attitude. Or you don't, and it's almost like a two party system in politics, where it's like, you're either at one extreme end, or you're at the other. You either believe in collaboration, and everyone should work together, or it's like, here is my fiefdom, and my silo, and everybody else.


    Is there to serve me and again, not just picking on sales. I mean, any department can have that attitude.


    Christine: Yeah, I think it's a really fair question and I don't know that I know the answer. I think there's a certain bit of wiring and I think for me early days I saw success from doing it. So I was trained pretty quickly to say if I partner with a sales rep, my outcomes are going to be that much better.


    So why wouldn't I continue to do that? And fortunately, I say this with some degree of pride is that. I've never had an adversarial relationship with any of the sales leaders that I've worked with. And that's because I'm like, what's your goal is my goal. So how do we get there together? And I'm here to support you.


    And I'm here to make sure that you look good because we're all trying to drive the business. So I think if you maybe have some bad experiences or you've hit a wall and felt like your success was hindered by other people, I think then you start building that wall even higher and thicker.


    Jason: And what's interesting is I can think of people that I know professionally who have that collaborative mindset.


    And they didn't necessarily raise that way, meaning it wasn't like they had a manager or a leader or a coach or a mentor who was like, here's what we do. And we work with customer service. We work with marketing and we team up with them from a sales side. People who were essentially, if we will, raised in a very us versus them department and, but then grew up to be collaborative and do things in that department and then beyond.


    And so I think it's always fascinating that, I don't know, maybe you're either born with that attitude or you just realize like, Hey, it's much easier and better.


    Christine: It is much easier. Yeah. And again, those early successes, right? You're going to do more of that. If you're like, Oh, that kind of worked. What does it look like to partner more thoroughly?


    And more completely.


    Jason: Yeah. So how much of your, let's say mindset success with that partnering part, which I think is super important for the CR role. And in my opinion, the basis of the CRO, the chief revenue officer is to tie sales, marketing, customer service, retention, any revenue operation together under one umbrella.


    How much of your success in that mindset and the role comes from, I won't say starting out at the bottom, but starting off in completely other related departments or unrelated departments in your career.


    Christine: Yeah, I think it has a lot to do with it, Jason. So early days, I think my first tech gig was through professional services.


    So I figured out what it would look like to do business development and work with customers and solve their needs. And then it was into the product side on the product management and then into product marketing and then corporate marketing, customer programs and marketing and then now sales. And once you understand those other disciplines, maybe you have empathy.


    For what the challenges are that they face like going at the product side and saying these people have very loud voices on the users to say this is what we need to build but then there's also how do we go and acquire new customers what are the features functionality attributes of the product that need to serve that and those can be competing so if you understand that Then maybe you can navigate a pathway forward to serve both of those.


    So again, I think it comes from understanding it, having walked in the shoes of those functions and knowing that it's not like, Oh, the product people only want to do this or Oh, sales reps only want to do that. Like I get it. I was kind of one of them. So to have that empathy to understanding. And then kind of knowing how it all comes together, I think is a really critical piece of it to remove those silos and then look at everything a little bit more holistically.


    Jason: I think that's just generally how you build empathy and have things like empathy and compassion for people in the world in general. When you can pull yourself away from it and imagine what the other person's dealing with, or you've been through enough life, capital L life, where you can. Closely walk in somebody else's shoes.


    Like you've been there, I mean, everyone has a different experience whether you have loss or financial failure. It's like, you can't ever say like, ah, I know what that feels like. Cause you don't, but you can know pretty close, the more of that in the world. And then you take that into the business landscape and then you apply that to your role.


    I think that's super, I mean, the more that you've been in the operational side, I know for me, like I. Always ran away from sales and tried to stay in the operational side and hide over there because I didn't want to deal with people. Um, and then when I would go into sales or be moved over to sales or leading sales teams, it was like, okay, sales, we're going to sell it like this because when that customer gets enrolled and goes to the back end, if you don't do it right, it's a hot mess over there.


    So let's set them up correctly, right?


    Christine: And a couple of things jump in my mind exactly to that. You don't always have to have done the job. But be curious and listen and talk to somebody. I'd be like, Jason, tell me about what's going on. Why would you build it this way? I'm curious. I'm not attacking. It's so learn.


    And I figured that out when I was running the customer programs early days. And I got to tell you, Jason, of all the things that have ever scared me to death. It was picking up the customer program, and by that I meant all of the customers across all of the company to have find advocates and get them to do reference activities and get their stories.


    But it taught me to listen, and I realized that was the number one thing is I didn't have to sell as much as I needed to absorb and listen and then apply and say, you know what, Jason, that's a great story. I'd love to profile you in a use case or I'd love to have you on a video. Can we talk about how that looks?


    So it became natural. For me to really listen and understand and then you can build all the knowledge. The other thing just kind of going back to your earlier question is like, what does it look like outside in? So customers come to your website and they learn and they consume and then they maybe interact via chat or then they talk to a rep and all the kind of things that along the cycle, right?


    And then they get the product. How consistent are we presenting ourselves? Is one story on the website when I learn in the products like, well, that's not at all true. Or when I talk to a reference customer, do they mirror that or do they talk about something else? I think that's really what drives me too, is to say, let's look outside in.


    How are we presenting ourselves to our buyers, to our prospects, to our existing customers? And is that consistent? Because then you're setting up your sales team for a really difficult road. If they have to undo some of the learning that somebody's gotten from the website or from another conversation.


    That's a hard thing to hand to a sales rep.


    Jason: All right, that's it for part one of my conversation with Christina Bottagaro. And make sure to find her online, LinkedIn is a great place to go. And I will see you in part two tomorrow.


    That's it for another episode of the Sales Experience Podcast. Thank you so much for listening.


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The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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