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[E273] Tales of a new CRO, with Darryl Praill (Part 3)

January 17, 2024


Should salespeople deliver more productivity to get more leads so that they can increase profit?


Your sales team represents the structure of your company. Should they deliver more productivity to get more leads so that they can increase profit? 


There needs to be structure within an organization to guide salespeople on targeting their leads. Narrowing down to target prospects creates effective results that add value to their company.


Top salespeople may show leading performance, however, that does not necessarily mean they fit the team culture. With one person not being a team player or creating negative tension, this results in affecting the performance of the rest of the team. 


Having the mentality of being all in one team and supporting one another is part of the key to success. That is where training plays an important role for salespeople who need to improve their performance and grow their knowledge of selling. This combination of behaviors and actions in a sales team indicates back to the management team.



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Darryl’s Bio:
Darryl Praill is the Chief Revenue Officer at VanillaSoft, the industry’s most established Sales Engagement Platform. As an accomplished award-winning marketer, a Sales World Top 50 Keynote speaker, a 2020 top 10 SaaS Branding Expert, a Top 19 B2B Marketer to Watch in 2019, a social media influencer, a category-leading podcaster, and a serial entrepreneur. Darryl has raised almost $100 million in venture capital, acquired, merged and taken companies public, been hired and fired, and worked for companies of all sizes



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• Darryl Praill

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  • Show Transcript

    Jason: This is part three of my conversation with Daryl Prail from Vanilla Soft. Please make sure to listen to part one and two. You're an aspiring CRO, you're a CEO of an organization, and you're struggling with the alignment between sales and marketing. This is the series for you from a revenue operation standpoint.


    Here you go. Part three, I will see you afterwards.


    Darryl: So now we have a whole ABM model going on. Invested in. Software. So we put it, we bought Terminus and then we bought salesforce. com. So we had a single source of record truth across the whole system and all the AEs are using salesforce. com before they just use Manila.


    So lots of technology, lots of overhaul. The purpose of doing ABM was still my AEs are not now being outbound driven. Now there's. Five plus 40 accounts. You're chasing junior. That's called outbound. You're going to actually target the accounts. You're going to know your value. You're going to map them all out and away you go.


    So getting them involved in creating those lists was huge to get buy in. So Long story short, we moved from an inbound to an outbound to do that. We went ABM to make ABM happen. We put in technology. We created supporting departments. We focus on training consistently on product and on selling. I actually brought in an outside sales trainer.


    We put together a three month steroid based training on sales skills. So they're having one on ones with every rep every single week, as well as with teams. We now average a minimum of five hours a week. Just in training, which we were never doing before. And so that's where we're at. That's a long answer, Jason.


    I apologize. But as you can see, I rolled that all out on day 30. And on day 30, I literally used the exact same way how it started. I called every single rep one on one and I spent 20 to 30 minutes with them again. And I said, okay, we talked a month ago. Here, we're fast forward a month. And I told them what I just told you.


    Same thing at the same speed. Here's what I uncovered. Here's what I learned. Do you think that's right? Yes, Daryl, that's right. Great. This is what we're doing. Ding ding. And this is your new role. Several people got promoted to become AEs. A few people got reduced because of the structure and change.


    And one of the feedback I got was, I'm so excited. I'm so thrilled. Like they were just jammed. They were just so pumped. They're like, we have a plan and it makes sense. And they were shocked. They were shocked at how much I shared with them and how in depth it was. Which that part surprised me that they were shocked because how else do you do it?


    We all need to be bought in. That's my first 30 days. Now we're in the middle of actually ripping out all the cadences and the processes and the tools and cleaning all the data. to make this all work. So we're in the middle of rolling out Salesforce. We're in the middle of making Terminus hum. So it's been a process, my friend, and I don't get sleep much anymore.


    Jason: I bet you don't. And one of the things that we talked about before this, that I think is important to add to that story. is essentially the reaction of the team when it was announced when you were going to be the CRO and you were now in charge of sales and it sounds like sales was a rudderless ship or there wasn't really much leadership over on sales there was awesome Daryl CMO and then all of a sudden CRO and what were people's thoughts or reactions to your face or Not to your face as far as what's maybe their concerns with you coming into that role.


    Darryl: So that's a good question. So were they rudderless? I wouldn't say they were rudderless before, but it's a fair point. What they were was they were perhaps misguided. So as they were clearly not hitting their targets, what they were doing was they were saying, we need to do more activity and more activity.


    Darryl, give me more leads. Give me more leads. Give me more leads. And they say, at one point you go dude. Do you know how many leads? We're making 150 calls a day! If more activity isn't getting you to hit your numbers, doing more activity isn't going to get you to hit your numbers, it's a bigger problem.


    So if you have that behavior going on in your organization, guys, FYI, you're not alone. Their reaction, I was actually really keen about that myself. The CEO and I had this conversation. I was curious how they would react. I expected them to do the old, a marketing guy? A marketing guy is going to be the CRO?


    He doesn't know jack crap about sales. A marketing guy? And for those who don't know me, I have been a VP of sales multiple times before. But by admission, I hadn't done the sales gig. And over a decade because I went all in on marketing, I eventually made a decision. I like marketing. So I have some sales experience, but it's been a long time instead.


    What I heard back and I always have to qualify it because the filter people will tell you what they want you to hear, right? What I heard back over and over again was we're not surprised. We're not surprised. It's you. It makes sense. It's you. And I think that's only because I'm so active. In the sales community, by nature, marketers are active in the industries where their prospects live.


    That's how they're doing their job. And I'm active in the sales community, whether it be on LinkedIn or at shows or what have you. And much of what I talk about is about problems that sales reps have. What do you, cold calling sucks, social selling, I don't get it. How do you handle objections?


    How do you do discovery? What's a one on one call look like? I have all this conversation all the time. And so this is the interesting part. When I have these conversations and I'm speaking to crowds or pining on places like LinkedIn or Twitter, it's only because I've talked to other people like Jason and Jason has said to me Darryl, here's what you need to know when it comes to doing discovery, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.


    And I was like, really, Jason helped me understand this and he will educate me. And then it's forward a month. And all of a sudden I'm out there opining on how to do discovery. But if you're really savvy, you go back 30 days, you go. He's just parroting what Jason told him a month ago.


    Jason: One thing I've seen is that salespeople worry about only being able to win if they use manipulation, tricks, tactics, and hard closes.


    So they end up struggling to close deals, make their quota, or earn the kind of money that they want to make. If this sounds like your current situation, or maybe you wanna make more money in sales without feeling like you're selling, than my upcoming book called, selling with Authentic Persuasion will help.


    In it, I'm going to take you on a journey to transform from order taker to quota breaker. If you're ready to become an authentic persuader, crush your goals and create success in your sales career, then go to jasoncutter. com again, that's jasoncutter. com and pre order the book today. There's no new information if it helps.


    I'm never offended by that.


    Darryl: You got it. And so I expected the reps to say, yeah, we know he's busy, but he's a marketing guy. He doesn't really know anything. Because he's just parroting Jason all the time. And that didn't happen. In fact, I had a lot of excitement. And I think the reason I got the excitement, candidly, wasn't, it wasn't necessarily, they weren't necessarily questioning my skills, because they knew, it was explained to them from the get go, as CRO, that I will eventually, in a few months, I'll have a head of sales, and I'll have a head of marketing, and I'll be the CRO, true, the true CRO.


    So they understood that my skill set probably made sense in that kind of a structure. I think where they were excited was the energy. So clearly I have a reputation, which has been years in the making. I do have a style for better or for worse. My kids would say for worse, my wife would roll her eyes. But for some reason, many people like the style, which is a little more energetic, a little more bold, a little more audacious, a little more inappropriate.


    Some might argue, but it is a style and the sales reps were keen. And what it was, what I learned, this was a really interesting point was. They have felt like the whipping boy, if you will, for a long time because they were missing their numbers. So they felt like in me, because of the notoriety and the influence I have within the industry and within the company, that I was going to be their advocate.


    Which I am! And I remember getting on one call, it was a funny, early on in that first two week process. I was listening to this VP of sales say bullshit comments about why his reps don't have time to work in software. They're too busy closing deals. I'm not making this stuff up. And I started pushing back and I just I lost my cool, but I wasn't going to yell at the guy.


    I'm like, really? Help me understand this. And I started spilling facts. Gartner says this and Topol says this and how are you doing that and blah, blah, blah, blah. It was very fact based. It was very scientific. It was very logical. It was very best practice. It was very scientific. I was able to attribute all my reference points and you can see them go.


    Oh. And finally in the end, he was like, I don't know. I hear you're saying let's talk again next week. Okay, great. Got off the call and I was actually peeled. I was peeled. I'm like that guy, but waste my time, blah, blah, usual sales response. My sales rep, my account executive calls me up and he is.


    streets and I'm always so you gave it to him. He wa you just stood up and you that was eye opening for said yeah, he was rude. Everything I was as leader, a V. P. C. Level And he didn't have the answers and he knew he didn't have the answers. He goes, yeah, but he's now hanging up going, damn, I don't have the answer.


    Darryl's the guy vanilla soft knows what they're talking about. And that was an epiphany. It was like, okay, so not only did they want an advocate, my team. But they actually wanted somebody who could lead them in the battle and show them how to do that. And so I think that's why I've been blessed to have a team who has, once the full reorg was announced and they realized they still have their jobs, they appear to have embraced me.


    Now when we have, we had our sales meeting a couple hours ago, our weekly sales meeting. And there's a lot of laughter and a lot of trash talk, a lot of fun, a lot of hard questions, but it's a very different call from what it was even a month ago. So that's a good sign.


    Jason: And I think that advocate piece is important because one of the trends I see a lot is somebody moves up and or somebody's in a manager, VP, whatever role.


    And if there's a deal on the line or somebody's questioning something. To get the sale, they may throw their own team under the bus, which is terrible for the company. Unless if the rep did something incorrect or said something incorrect, that's one thing, right? But it's another one to try to save face by dismissing the person down the chain, if you will.


    And I've seen that a lot. And, of course, the team doesn't respect that. It's different when everyone realizes, Hey, the team needs to get stronger, but I'm still going to stand up to this person and tell them the truth, right? The customer's not always right.


    Darryl: What's interesting about what you say there, I'm not going to name names.


    When I was doing my assessment of the team, I observed I had a couple of individuals who were very talented. I would suggest they might have attributes of what you're alluding to. And I knew right away That was going to impact the culture that I wanted, which now puts me in a hard spot. Do I keep them?


    Because of their performance record, or do I replace them because of the culture fit and some stayed and some left. That was a huge consideration when I was doing the evaluation. Cause I can always teach you how to be smarter about the product or be more refined on the sales skill. But if you're wired to throw your teammates under the bus or to be passive aggressive.


    Or to play both sides against each other, that ain't gonna work on my team.


    Jason: No, and people can change, right? Anything is possible. Do they want to change? Will they change at the speed it's necessary? Is it healthy for the organization? A lot of companies aren't willing to do that, especially top performers who are usually Also, potentially very toxic and they're not willing to take that step backwards because they're afraid of what it might do.


    But you gotta protect the culture, right? And the group and make everyone feel safe and supported, highly accountable, right? It's not about cuddles and entitlements enabling everybody. It's about accountability and feeling safe and supported.


    Darryl: And it's tough because some of the decisions you make in these reorgs Are not just exactly what you're saying, because that's foundation, like you don't do that, you're screwed, you're gonna fail from the get go.


    Part of it is structural, like when I talk about going to an ABM structure, teams and verticals and the ratio of SDRs to AEs and all that stuff. But part of that as well was territory alignment. So when I actually had certain industries that were booming and, the number of reps I have there right now can't support the man and I have to actually break it up into smaller territories.


    That means I'm actually taking away territory from certain existing reps to do that realignment and that has proven problematic. And we're still working through some of those hiccups and some of those reps were saying but so that's my way of saying it may sound like we've got a plan here.


    Things are going rosy. It's not been without hiccups. And it's a process and it's a tough one, right? Because you want reps to do but you want reps who are hungry and chasing deals and they want to be king of the hill. You want that. So I continue to refine. Let's go with that.


    Jason: All right. That's it for part three. Again, you can find Daryl Prail everywhere online. Google him. You'll find him. And I will see you tomorrow for the final part of this conversation. That's it for another episode of the Sales Experience Podcast. Thank you so much for listening. If you find yourself on iTunes, can you leave the show a rating and a review?


    It helps other salespeople and sales leaders find the show, and please subscribe to the show and share episodes you find valuable with anyone you know in sales. Help me on my mission of changing the way sales is done. And if you're ready to work together, go to Jason cutter. com. Again, that's Jason cutter. com to find out how I can help you or your company create scalable sales success. I will see you on the next sales experience podcast episode and keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


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The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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