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[E254] Relational Brand Building, with Jarrett Thomas (Part 4)

January 16, 2024



What is your intention behind the calls you are making?


What is your intention behind the calls you are making?


According to Jarrett, it’s about being smart, working hard, and building relationships.


Instead of making 100’s of calls a day, make less, then reach out and connect human to human.


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Jarrett’s Bio

I’ve been in digital sales for close to 10 years and have experience selling Display advertising, SEO, Saas, programmatic Ads & Social Media Analytics. I’ve had the pleasure to work with brands like Overstock, HFC, Radio City Music Hall, CannTrust, Canadian Paralympics, Lionsgate Films, and many more.


I’m more than a sales quota, I’m a father, brother, friend, colleague, and the type person that is willing to go the extra mile to help someone in need. My work ethic is something I truly hang my hat on and I’m continuously looking for ways to better myself both personally and professionally. I’m all about building genuine relationships and doing good business that helps all involved.


His Links:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jarrettthomas1/

https://clarity.fm/ipullrank

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Now for your host, Jason Cutter.


    Welcome to part four, the final part of my conversation with Jared Thomas. He does amazing work on the relational side, no matter what you're selling, no matter what you're doing, the key is relationships. The key is having the right framework. The key is playing the long game in those conversations, which for some people might be months and months.


    Some, it might be a couple of conversations, but what are you doing? If you focus on the longterm, you focus on value, you focus on giving first, then you will get what you want. That always holds true. That's why my number one favorite quote by Zig Ziglar is help enough people get what they want. You'll get everything.


    You want not some things, not partially what you want, but everything. So this is it. Fourth part, final part of the conversation with Jarret.


    Jarrett: Enjoy all those things. It takes time. So if you have somebody who doesn't have these type of responsibilities that I have, or my pie chart is so full and you can do it, go for it.


    But you're going to know one is going to outperform the other. All right. You're going to eventually hone in on one channel. Whichever one is grabbing the revenue is where you focus.


    Jason: And I think that's the key is where are your people at? And then I think this is always important to remember and focus on is self awareness.


    Each person out there in the world, who are you? What are you good at? What do you like doing? And then what's going to come most natural and feel the best for you and the other people, right? So maybe it's a podcast, maybe it's video, maybe it's not. Maybe you just like to write. So when you go on LinkedIn, you see all these videos.


    I do it as well. I look at all the videos that I scroll through on man, man, I don't like making videos, I don't want to do videos. And there's the algorithm and you got to play the game. But if that's not you, it will be terrible. So stick to what you can do and you will win. Even if you're just writing and that's all you do, do that if that's the home run.


    Jarrett: Whatever you're passionate about, man. Some people are too shy to do a video thing. Well, then if you are, then How do you get books on copywriting? How do you create some really good copy? Or how do you tell a really good story within these character limits? And just practice and practice and practice. Me, I would just scroll on my phone as soon as an idea comes up.


    I'm going to write my notes. Oh, that's tomorrow. As soon as something happens, I'll put it in my notes. Everything is content. It doesn't have to be a Steven Spielberg production. Just take out your phone and hey, throw some captions maybe. Something simple, right? Be outside, have people see your face, switch it up.


    So whatever works for you guys. Just happen to me. I'm not a video guy myself. I'm terrible at editing. I'm a good storyteller. I do music. I'm a rapper. I'm a storyteller. That's my thing.


    Jason: There you go. Well, and for the ideas, when I'm scrolling through things or reading anything, what I've found works best for me is I just take a screenshot, a snapshot with my phone, right, where it snaps the whole thing, and I just email that to myself, and I can't stand unread emails in my inbox, my work one, and so literally it sits there, and the next day I pull it up, I'm like, okay, let's work on that, let's do that, put that on the list, so.


    Jarrett: Yeah, same. Yeah, man. But there's definitely a lot of good creators out there, man, like, I see some of the videos now, like, I think we both talked about it offline, like Alex Sheridan, if you guys haven't heard of him, he's Good friend of ours. Please check him out. His videos are amazing. Like the way he did the founder versus the employee.


    Jason: Yeah, those videos are amazing. And the key is, is when you see something like that, make sure to not compare me like, dude, that guy's on another level. I can never do that. So I'm going to do nothing. It's about trying to do more. If that's something you want to do, not feel like you should or have to do.


    And that goes with any sales thing, right? Like, so maybe You don't want to do this one thing, try selling this other way, or maybe you're interacting better and also people like Alex and creators like that. They have courses. I know he has his bootcamp and there's things where you can learn and get help and get better over time.


    Jarrett: Yeah. But you hit the nail on the head. It's not a competition. I look at those videos. I say he's crushing it and you know what I'm DMing him. What's up, bro. I'm not comparing myself. It is what it is. You're only competing with yourself. If you don't post, then you're only doing yourself a disservice. So you get yourself out there, even if it does two, three likes, that's two, three people that I could connect with on another level.


    Then I wouldn't have, if I did nothing.


    Jason: Well, and that's where it's important. And that's where I won. I'm glad you brought that up because I was a little worried when you said about you went on LinkedIn, then you made a post regarding the editor's newsfeed. You got like 40, 000 likes the promise. Sometimes people expect that they do it.


    If they don't get that, they get depressed, right? They got zero likes or zero comments on their video. Is just do the content. It's also the phone calls, right? If you're making a hundred phone calls, nobody's saying yes. Don't get depressed unless it's you. If it's you and your message or what you're saying on those cold calls or what you said in the video, maybe that's it.


    It might just be, it takes time, right? Especially when you look at somebody like Alex or any great content creator. Keep in mind, like, they seem like a master now, but every master started out, like, I think the, what's the phrase, every master started out as a disaster. I listened to my first podcast, I don't know if this is any better, it might not be, but in my head, when I hear the first podcast I did, like, last year, it's like, man, that's rough.


    Jarrett: But, you gotta start somewhere. You have to. The best, the best way to not get a yes is to do nothing. To do really nothing. Once I got that 40, 000 views on that post, I think the next post I got like with seven likes


    Jason: and that's devastating. Right? That's what happens to child stars when they're no longer a child star.


    And then it can be terrible if you're not careful.


    Jarrett: To be honest with you, it depends what you're measuring, right? But I know I'm doing good when people don't like it. But then I get the dms, I get the call of actions or I'm in the street. I see an old colleague is like, Hey, I see you on linkedin, man.


    Chilling me. I love your stuff. But you never liked none of my content. So you just don't want to, who knows? Some people are like that, but the fact that I know it's visible, the fact that I'm top of mind. I've had old colleagues be like, man, I just saw your content. Some told me to just say what's up and call you, man.


    You're doing the right thing, man. So just get it out there. I don't care who likes my posts. I don't care. As long as I'm building genuine relationships, I'm cool with it.


    Jason: And really, likes don't matter. It's all about just getting as many business cards as you can, right? Isn't that all that matters? That's it.


    That's it. That's it. Collecting business cards? Isn't that, wasn't that the metric?


    Jarrett: That's it, man. That was a terrible metric. I hated it. I don't think we got any deals from that damn conference.


    Jason: One thing I've seen is that salespeople worry about only being able to win if they use manipulation, tricks, tactics, and hard closes.


    So they end up struggling to close deals. Make their quota or earn the kind of money that they want to make. If this sounds like your current situation, or maybe you want to make more money in sales without feeling like you're selling, then my upcoming book called Selling with Authentic Persuasion will help.


    In it, I'm going to take you on a journey to transform from order taker to quota breaker. If you're ready to become an authentic persuader, Crush your goals and create success in your sales career. Then go to Jason cutter. com again. That's Jason cutter. com and pre order the book today. Well, and here's the thing, right?


    For any leaders out there. One of the challenges is that if you set a metric like that, where it's this front end metric, which is important, you can only measure. And hold people accountable to activities and actions, not results, right? I can't go to the gym and assume and only require I'm going to get a certain result.


    Like I can just put in the effort, but I can't control what happens. But the problem is, is when you go so much on a metric like that, you're opening the door to people trying to game the system, right? Like phone calls. I've seen that too, where it's like, okay, make 100 phone calls. Okay, well, you make 100 phone calls where you pick up and hang up and pick up and hang up.


    It's like, cool, I made my calls, but. Like, what's the intent? What does that mean?


    Jarrett: Yeah, exactly. Like, first of all, who are you calling? Yeah. Right? Like, dig deeper. Who is the 100? If I have a quality 100 list and your list is just non decision makers of people who are not doing anything or not interested in your services, then it means nothing.


    You're just showing activity just to collect the paycheck. We're all salespeople. We want the commission and the sales, right? So that's what we're going for, right? So how do we run up the scoreboard? It's by being active. Not only being active, but being smart about it, right? Doing your prospecting, making your hundred dows, but relationships.


    If I'm everybody out there, if I'm an SDR right now I'm creating content. I'm not making 100 calls. I'd make 50, and then I'm connecting with that same 50 I called the very next day. And then I'm creating content geared specifically to that segment. So if they're all digital marketers, maybe I come up with something that was just on SEO Journal or something like that.


    Or maybe anything that's in their realm. I'm just going to share it. And if they like it, I gotcha. I'm not joking with you.


    Jason: But seriously, I mean, it's all about attention, right? So you want to get the attention and start the relationship. But I'm glad that you brought this up because I was thinking about the same time, uh, and then you mentioned it, the cautionary tale and the warning, and I mentioned this a lot, especially when it comes up with guests is to also balance it with not being that person on LinkedIn, that where you accept their connection request, and the next thing is an instant sales pitch that may or may not be a page long.


    It shows the intent. It might as well be a cold call, except worse because Like, it feels like a violation.


    Jarrett: It is. I feel like, for me personally, I have like a 10 touch rule. Like, I'm not doing anything, I'm not even asking for anything until 10 touches. So that's when you like my post, you commented on the post, and we had a DM conversation, I'm saying, Hey, how's it going?


    Hey, Jared. Each touch is a touch. So every time I say something, What's up? How's your day going, Bill? How's the kids? That's one touch. You respond, that's another touch. So as soon as I get to 10, and if I read the room, I feel like it's a good time to ask it, then I'm going to make the ask. Or I won't even do it.


    I might even do a one sheeter where I do some research about your website or something like that, and I just give it to you for free. Like, hey man, I was doing some research, and there you go. Tell me what you think. And then people are like, damn, you took the time out to do this. You didn't have to. I know.


    And I'm just curious, what do you think about this? Because I have some recommendations, I have some suggestions. What's it like? If it makes sense, let me know. If not, yo man, let's get a coffee when you can.


    Jason: You know what I mean? Yeah. And I think that's important because one side, that abundance intention is key, which is there's enough business out there.


    I'm going to focus on relationships. I can always tell when somebody's doing that to me and they're queuing it up and they're trying to check the boxes on the touches before they're going to go in for the kill and then like try to pitch me something. And I could feel it. It just feels weird. Like even on online, I could just feel it or I'm always like thinking it's going to happen.


    I was like, why do you care? Like, come on. I see you coach consultants on how to get more clients. Like I know what your title is. Like I know what's coming. Let's just be real. But and so what I'll tell you is I also appreciate like what you said, which I think is important, which is, hey, I'm going to provide some value to you.


    This is what I do for a living. If you're interested in it or you want to talk more about it, if there's anything I can do to help you like that's what I do. And I think that's actually really important to do in that, which is to set the framework like there's no hidden agenda. The agenda is I want to help you.


    Let's just be clear.


    Jarrett: Right. Exactly. So instead of me just giving that right out the gate, I still want to know how you are and stuff like that. I still want to make relationships. So that's, people can tell, like, that's why the authenticity, the tone, people can sense BS from a mile away. But if you're just being yourself, like I said, like me, I am a genuine good person.


    At least I like to think so. You know what I mean? You are. Yeah, I'm a genuine. I just like to help you. I just had a conversation today. I'm on vacation and I was helping a gentleman who saw my podcast yesterday. He reached out. I was like, how are you doing sales during the pandemic? Can we just have a call?


    No problem. On the vacation. I'm like, let's do it, man. We had our conversation, man. He was so cool, but that's just me. Is it going to lead to a sale? I don't know. But is it going to be somebody who's going to be a champion? Somebody I still have a relationship with and. It could lead to something down the line.


    And if you get a hundred, 200, 300 of those 10 years from now, man, when my story and whenever I retire 15, 20 years from now, I'm going to say, damn, Jared, I remember back in 2018, 2021, Jared was the same Jared that he is in 2042.


    Jason: And it's about being authentic. And then again, I think even with a LinkedIn strategy, do the opposite of what everyone else does, do the opposite of what those people that hit with the cold messages, like figure out a different way and just imagine.


    I forget who posted this. I saw this a while ago, but you wouldn't do that at a party, right? You wouldn't walk into a party and meet somebody and be like, Hey. Oh, my name is Jason. I do consulting. Do you need help? Like, I can help you. You've got all these problems. I'm sure, right? I'm sure your sales team sucks.


    Like, no, you wouldn't do that, but people do that online. Just be a human.


    Jarrett: I get the party and it is the hot girl. Hey, how you doing? Let's go to dance. Let's go. That doesn't work. No, that's how it works. And that applies to everything. You should know when to ask, right? Read out the room, you know, have a conversation with the person first, understand who they are.


    And then. If it's appropriate, you go for it.


    Jason: Yep. Cool. Well, that's awesome. That's a great place to stop. It's funny because normally I ask people, where should they find you? Where can they go? I already know the answer because you sent it to me in advance and I was shocked because it was only one link.


    LinkedIn. Jared. That's the place to go. Obviously, it's what we've been talking about a lot.


    Jarrett: Yes, please connect anybody hearing this man. Thank you for listening. It was a pleasure for you having me, Jason. I enjoyed myself. Please feel free to connect with me. Send me a DM, say what's up, man. I'm super approachable and I'm looking forward to meeting new people, man.


    Jason: Just don't hit him with a sales pitch right away. Make sure to do 10 touches first.


    Jarrett: All the Forex people and all that stuff. Please don't. I have posts about this. And please, anybody who's DMing, don't in mail. As soon as I see InMail, I think sales pitch. It's over. Do not use it. Connect first, then do the deal.


    Jason: Cool. Jarrett, thanks for being here. Appreciate it. This was so fun.


    Jarrett: My brother, man. Have a great weekend. Happy Friday again, man. We're going to do this again. We need a part two.


    Jason: Yeah, for sure. And for everyone listening, make sure to go to CutterConsultingGroup. com slash podcast. Find the show notes. Find Jarrett's one link for LinkedIn, which I already know is going to be on there.


    But if you need it again, you can find it there. It's Jarrett Thomas. And keep in mind everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


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The Balance of Effort in Sales The blogs this week have been about the other person going most of the way. Whether it’s a prospective customer and your salesperson, where the salesperson truly can’t want the deal or make most of it happen for that customer to truly be successful. On the path for that prospect to becoming a customer, they should go at least 51/49. Whether it’s your team and their manager, the manager can’t want the team to succeed more than the team actually wants it for themselves. It’s not scalable for the coach (manager) to run on the field every play to win the game for the salespeople. What about sales ops processes and systems? What about the tools available to the sales team and the ones that are classified as sales enablement? In a reversal of philosophy, I believe the sales ops processes should go 90, the team should only have to go 10. Why Do We Need Salespeople? Let’s start where it matters – what is the point of having salespeople? I know many owners question the need and desire to have salespeople. They are hard to manage, tough to deal with, always want more money (potentially for doing less work and closing less deals), and are very resistant to change. Of course, that is a generalization. Of course, there are salespeople who don’t check those boxes. However, having worked with a lot of teams in a lot of industries, that generalization isn’t completely wrong or unfair. So if there is even a small part of that which is accurate, why would we even mess with the messiness of having salespeople? Of needing to employ and manage humans? The Human Element in Sales We need them. That’s why. Even in 2025, AI and technology has not successfully replicated the requirements of sales – which is about helping a human (prospect/customer) make the right decision and move outside of their comfort zone to buy something new. It still takes your human (salesperson) to persuade that other human. It’s why I say all the time that its not B2B, B2C, Retail, SaaS, etc. – it’s H2H. Sure, people can buy something online or even in a store without speaking to someone. But if it’s a considered purchase where there are options and decisions to be considered – it still takes a human being involved. That means ultimately your human (salesperson) has one job, and one job only – persuade the right prospective humans to buy. Minimizing Distractions for Salespeople Everything outside of that mission, task, focus is a distraction that takes away from their highest and best use. Imagine if we had a surgeon who had to prep the room, prep the patient, schedule the surgery and meetings, and do all the parts of the surgery themselves. Nope – they show up for the surgery and do what they do best. Then they take off their gown, gloves, and walk away to get cleaned up and move on to the next thing. Your goal as a sales ops leader is to support the team with systems and processes that allow them to focus on the one thing you need them for. The human part. It would be amazing if they could show up, talk to people, and make sales happen. Of course, there is more that they (and any professional) need to do before, during, and after the sales conversation. But your goal is to minimize all that. Every hour that your salespeople aren’t selling or doing sales-related activities, they aren’t moving revenue forward. The Ultimate Goal of Sales Ops What processes can you put in place that go 90 percent of the way, where the salesperson can do the last 10 percent? An example would be building an email campaign that runs automatically, and when the right people reply, the salesperson gets involved in getting that person from email to phone call. Another example would be your CRM serving up people for the salesperson to call – leads or anyone in the sales pipeline flow – with all the backstory, research, data, intel needed for them to review it then take action. What can you put into place that takes away as much distraction and effort from your sales team such that they can focus on the one thing you need to focus on – other humans?
By Jason Cutter February 12, 2025
The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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