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E221: Welcome to Season 3

January 15, 2024



How can you gain access to decision-makers?


Welcome to Season 3! Time to kick off another great season.


This episode is part recap, part season intro, and then part Q&A session


If you are struggling with gaining access to decision-makers or getting your prospect/contact to be your champion up the chain, this episode is for you.


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  • Show Transcript

    The most important thing to understand is that nobody cares about you or your service or your product. Literally nobody cares. 


    Welcome to the sales experience podcast, the show for salespeople and sales leaders, where we help you create the ideal sales experience to generate raving fan customers. Grab your notepad and get ready for actionable steps.

    You can use to change sales from a dirty word to an active service for your prospects. Now for your host, Jason Cutter.


    Welcome to season three of the sales experience podcast. I am your host, Jason Cutter. By tuning in, you're now on a journey to help sales people and teams transform the way they sell such that they're providing an amazing. Sales experience to customers as well as for themselves. So this isn't about making other people feel good at the cost of your wellbeingIt's about both. It's about an and conversation, not an or conversation. If this is the first time you're tuning in, welcome. So glad that you're here. If you've downloaded episodes in the past, welcome back. Whether it was a few or all 220 from the previous two seasons. I want to start this episode with a little recap.

    So like TV shows. When they kick off a new season, which I'm doing here, I want to talk about what's happened in the previous seasons, previous episodes, so that you know what happened, what you can go back and find, and then where we're picking up now in our journey together. So in season one, I focused on sharing a lot of what I know and have been in seeing in sales and what works and what doesn't.


    If you're looking for sales tips, strategies, or ways to improve each week had a theme. So it's easy to find a topic that would help you right now, or you can tear through the whole season. And a lot of those things are coming from 17 years in sales and sales leadership and applies to pretty much any sales industry, any role that you have.


    For you and or for your team. So there was also a lot of amazing guests during season one. And if you know anything about me or if you caught any of those, I don't enjoy pure interview shows where it feels very structured, very regimented. And it seemed like there's questions that had to be asked. So these are way more conversational than structured.


    So check those out. Those are bonus episodes outside of my normal. Shorter episodes, a lot of great guests, and I highly recommend all of those episodes. Now, in Season 2, I went more towards guest episodes. The expectation that I've always set with my listeners, and what I prefer when I'm listening to podcasts, is that the episodes would be under about 15 minutes long.

    For the guest episodes during Season 2, You'll notice that they were published as miniseries, which I know is not a word, but I couldn't think of something else. So like a miniseries, again, they're great, wide variety of guests from consultants to sales leaders, to marketers, to sales tech companies, to outsourcing consultants.


    Check it out. Use it as a resource for anything that might help you or your team. Literally can go in there. They're all labeled and titled appropriately for what we talk about on those guest miniseries. And you can find something that could help you apply to you and your success in the moment. Now let's talk about season three.


    What will that sound like? What will this be like together? So my goal It's still shorter episodes, five days a week. My goal is still the same, which is to provide as much value as I can packed into each episode to help you in some way in your selling effectiveness. And I'm going to do my best to be as powerful and short and succinct that I can and give so much value in many different ways.

    And one of the things that I've been doing is I've been collecting a lot of questions and topic ideas from salespeople and sales leaders. What I'm going to do is take recordings of me addressing those sales related challenges that I have done for other purposes. And then I am going to share those on the podcast so you can hear those responses in case you didn't catch them in other ways.


    And then other times I'm going to record something specifically for the podcast and what comes up. I'm also going to take a lot of topics that are popping up that I'm seeing and talk about those relevant to the situation, especially right now with the COVID lockdown shelter in place, economic changes that have been happening and what seems to continue to evolve.

    I'm seeing a lot of companies. Who are successful, a lot that are struggling salespeople on both sides of the fence and what I have found and what I'm collecting from people as to what's working and what's not working. So I'm going to share as much of that as I can in these episodes. I'm also going to continue having guests.


    In fact, I have some lined up. We've recorded some episodes coming out soon that wide variety of guests where they have these experiences in different walks of life, whether it's sales or not, and bringing it in to help you and provide value to you. Because one of the big things is it's not always just about listening to someone talk about sales.

    It could be psychology. It could be storytelling. It could be mindset and mental health. Cover a lot of that as much as I can with guests. And if you're a long time listener, you'll notice that I have included more calls to actions in these episodes. My evolution with the podcast is about helping more people with their sales effectiveness.


    First, it was educating. And now it's time to take action. And so I've been creating courses, programs. I've started a one on one training program or coaching program with salespeople, group coaching programs with people and or teams and companies. If you're ready to get help with getting to the next level in your sales career.

    Check out Jason cutter. com. Best way to find me and all the different ways to get ahold of me and all the resources that I'm adding on a constant basis. So one of the things about this COVID situation and not traveling more time to focus more time to build more time to impact salespeople in any way that I can.


    So if you're looking for help, go to Jason cutter. com. Lastly, thank you for being here. Whether it's your first time listening, or this is truly episode 221 of your journey with me, listening to me talk about sales, I am always imagining that if you downloaded this episode, that you want to become a sales professional and impact your prospects and customers.

    In a positive way. So thank you for your part in making the world a better place by doing sales the right way. That's it for my intro for season three. And now let's get to the topic with the rest of our time together today. All right. So I have one question here actually, that I want to answer today, and it comes from Eric Lawrence.


    So connected with him on LinkedIn and he submitted this question. And in fact, I'll read the whole thing. So my biggest questions. Would be around getting access to decision makers. I worked in software sales to large corporations. So the perfect person evaluating the software is not the guy who signs the check.

    And there are often multiple levels of approval required. How do you get access to the decision makers? And if you can't. How can you make sure the person you are talking to plans to champion your solution instead of your competitors? I see this all the time, obviously from the consulting side, from a business side, my own business, other clients, as well as just what I see online.


    And this is a great question from Eric because this affects a lot of things. So how do you get ahold of the decision maker? Or how do you get the person you're talking to, to be that champion and really what it is and what it comes down to is understanding who you're calling individually. So that business, right?


    Account based marketing, ABM is one term for it, but understanding that company, that business, especially if you're going after larger accounts, but who are they, what do they do? And then of course, depending on how far you go into account based management. Who it is, what they do, and what do they currently have in place that you're trying to either improve upon or replace.

    Okay? So if you're selling marketing solutions, then what are they currently doing for marketing? How is that going? What technology are they currently using? And are you trying to get them to change their mind and dump a previous vendor that they're working with to go with something new? Or you're trying to enhance what they have.


    Obviously, enhancing is always easier to get your foot in the door instead of replacing the incumbent technology or service provider or whatever that is. The key is that you've got to know who they are, and then you've got to know the value you provide and what that return on investment is to that company.

    So what does it mean if they use your platform? They buy your service. What will that do for them and how we'll improve their business in what ways in all the ways that it will, because there's got to be that return on investment. Is it going to help them generate more leads? What's the cost per lead cost per acquisition?


    If it's a software platform for CRM, like productivity efficiency, what is that going to do for them? How is it going to help? We're talking about the champion. So that's the decision maker. And then you want to get a touch of the decision maker. Also play the long game. Like I was talking about, and this is why I picked this question for today when we're talking about reasonable and unreasonable people, keep in mind that business owner, they got to that point because they run a business, they make decisions, they've grown something such that you want to sell them something else, right?


    So they've been successful at some level, and you've got to keep in mind that A They're the type of person that makes decisions. That's why they've grown this company. That's why they've achieved what they have. Fundamentally, it means that they have made decisions and they are successful to that level, right?


    Whether it's two employees or a hundred employees, doesn't matter. They've reached some level of success based on their decision making ability. Now what you're trying to do is come in and tell them that they don't know everything or they're wrong because you're trying to sell them something else. And most people's egos won't like that business owners who feel like they know what they know, depending on how open minded they are.They really won't like it. So you've got to play the long game. You've got to provide lots of valuable content. You've got to show them that you are trying to help them not point out that they're doing anything wrong. Because if you do that, it's going to be a tough battle. So you want to give them information.


    You want to play that long game, play the relationship game, and then also just give them as much value as you can, such that they will then realize, okay, this is something I need and wants. And you want to make it more their idea because that will really help obviously depends on personalities but it could be a tough battle if you go in there and tell them they need what you have.


    They're going to tell you no because it's not their idea. Now let's talk about champions. So you want somebody to be the champion and how to get them to. Be that person who's going to sell you up the chain to the next person. The most important thing to understand is that nobody cares about you or your service or your product.


    Literally nobody cares. And I know that hurts for some people. I tell people that all the time. And at first they the ego kicks in for them as well. The key is to keep in mind is nobody cares about your product or service. All they care about is themselves, right? What's in it for me? That's all they literally care about.


    Now, that's not a bad thing. That's what you want. You're providing a service that's going to help them. It's going to do something for them. They don't care about you. They don't care about your brochures. They don't care about your elevator pitch or your features and your benefits and all blah, blah. Like they don't, they only care about what's in it for them.


    And so what you want to do is you always want to make sure you understand the deepest level of value you're providing to that champion in their life and in their role. For example, let's say marketing software into a company and you're dealing with that marketing manager, that CMO, that. Director of marketing, whatever they might be.


    And obviously they have to sell it and get approval. The key is you want to understand how what you have provides a solution for them in ways that would either benefit them in their career, in their life, or keep them from pain, right? So there's two main motivators is there's the hope for gain and there's the fear of pain.


    Most people are more motivated by fear of pain. So what is that marketing person afraid of or worried about? Or what are they held to for their KPIs and their standards? And how can you solve that? You always want to know. Doesn't matter. We're talking about the champions here. You always want to know what keeps that other person up at night, what wakes them up at two o'clock in the morning, the cold sweat, and or what are they constantly thinking about or trying to stay ahead of that their manager or the owner is going to ask them about.


    And they want to make sure they're on top of their game and they don't get in trouble. Is it a cost per lead cost per acquisition? Lead volume. Is it for sales? Whatever that looks like, whatever you're selling, you have to know what is in it for them, how it affects them at the deepest level possible, helps them be a superstar in their job, keep their job, reduce their stress, have a happier career there, make things easier in their life.


    The more you can do that, the better and easier they will become a champion because literally they will want to own that solution. They will know how much it means to them, and then they will go up the chain and they will sell it all day because it's so valuable to them. They will easily go to an owner and say, I want to have us buy this product, buy this service because it's going to do this, which affects my job, which affects the measurements that you've given me.


    And then I will be successful in this role. So always make sure you make it about them. So many salespeople, especially business to business salespeople, especially big enterprise salespeople. They focus on themselves and their pitch and their monologue and how great they are and how great their company is and why they're the newest, greatest, shiniest tech platform or product or piece of marketing or new way to do this or that everyone's got that same pitch and nobody cares.

    So make sure you focus about the other person, focus on the other person. Hopefully that helps. Eric, thanks for the question, and if you have questions, make sure to hit me up on Facebook. You can hit me up on LinkedIn. If you want to talk about sales for yourself or your team, you want to have your team focus on authentic persuasion, then go to jason cutter.com.


    You can find the link on there for scheduling a free sales power call. You can find the Authentic Persuasion ebook, my LinkedIn, the podcast, all the links are on there. And I will see you soon.


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By Jason Cutter February 13, 2025
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The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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