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E213: Proactive Relationship Management with Adam Honig – Part 2 of 4

January 8, 2024


What are the primary obstacles that hinder the seamless integration of CRM systems?


Adam Honig, from Spiro.ai is on a mission to get rid of the CRM, especially for sales teams. And this is coming from a guy who spent years as a CRM consultant and expert!


Check out this interesting discussion around why the CRM doesn’t work and what alternatives there are for managing a sales team and a sales pipeline.


Episode highlight:

“One of the big problems of course is CRM is kind of a one size fits all. It doesn’t adapt itself to the working style of the team.”

“Sometimes people tell me that they feel like they’re in a bad relationship with it because all it does is take from them. It doesn’t give anything back.”


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Adam’s Bio: 

Adam is passionate about helping companies make more money using artificial intelligence, and is the driving force behind Spiro’s pioneering new approach: proactive relationship management. As CEO, he is focused on the company’s overall market strategy and vision.

 

Previously, Adam co-founded a software company which he led through its successful IPO and sale. Afterwards, he founded Innoveer, one of the largest CRM consulting firms, which was successfully acquired by Cloud Sherpas (and then Accenture).

 

Where to follow Adam:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamhonig/

https://twitter.com/adamhonig

 

Links:

https://spiro.ai/

https://spiro.ai/resources/guide/infographic-not-your-fathers-crm/

https://spiro.ai/resources/guide/proactive-relationship-management/

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome back, part two, my conversation with Adam Honig from Spiro.ai. We’re going to continue this conversation talking about CRMs, not talking about CRM, sales reps, all of those things. Here you go, here’s the episode. I’ll see you at the end. If it’s a long sale cycle, you need more relational people, it’s going to be more analytics, there’s going to be a lot more that you have to know. If it’s short, then it’s about, you know, being able to use persuasion, get in there, you don’t want to overburden somebody and then make the sale happen and then move on.


    Adam: Right, right. Yeah, no, that’s a really good way of thinking about it as well.


    Jason: So let’s talk about CRMs then since that’s kind of the point and the focus of this in your experience, because you’ve done the CRM game for a really long time and obviously there’s your technology, which we’ll talk about when that comes up. In your experience, any way to get like sales reps to do the right behavior, to reinforce the right behavior, encourage the right behavior for anyone listening to this who has a CRM or they’re on spreadsheets and they’re like, what can I do?


    Adam: I don’t think so. I think the time is, listen, the first, so I was a partner at Siebel Systems in the 90s with the first true CRM that came out, and I worked with every CRM since, I’ll just give you one example. In my last company, we worked with a company called Covidien, which is a medical equipment maker, a $3 billion company. They had spent $3 million to implement salesforce.com with a sensor and like six months later, 10% of their sales team was using it. So the answer at the time was for them to pay me a half a million dollars to do some rework to the system and try to change it. So the sales people were going to use it and stuff like that.


    Adam: And yeah, I mean we made some changes that, you know, usage went up to 30% they were super happy, but it’s a terrible thing. No, I think there’s just systematic issues as to why 20 years later after CRM was invented, we’re still saying how do we get salespeople to use it. And what happened for me was I just had this moment in the movies. Of course as these things happen that I realized, you know, that we should not continue trying to solve this problem. It’s like you can only fix the house so much. At some point you have to be like, listen, we need a new foundation. Okay, you’re going to lose the kitchen. It doesn’t matter. Like let’s just tear the thing down and build something that actually works for sales people instead of, you know, asking them to change the way that they’re doing. Cause I don’t think they’re ever going to do that. That’s just one man’s point of view here.


    Jason: Yeah. And at the top because I almost thought you were going to give some actual tips, but it makes sense kind of with what your experience has been and where you’re going with this. And you know what you guys do at Spiro


    Adam: And I tell you that the classic change management things to get people to adopt CRM. So you make people live in the system, you run all of your meetings with the system pulled up to you know, name and shame them. If they’re not putting data in, you put incentives in place to encourage the right behavior. You have negative things that happen if people don’t follow the rules and four weeks later all of that goes out the window because you’re chasing this deal. And it’s much more important than doing any of these, you know, things, I just charge you half a million dollars for it. That’s the problem with all of it.


    Jason: Yeah. And it’s tough cause I really agree based on my experience, which definitely hasn’t been as long as yours. But in all the organizations I’ve seen where people aren’t using it, the only time where it really does work well where a CRM but it’s beyond a CRM because it’s actually more order management and sales management is when all orders or things have to go through that CRM in order to be a consummated, right. For the sales rep to move a purchase order through, like it has to go through that, then you know that at least those are going to be done 100%


    Adam: Right. Yeah. I mean a lot of sales VPs, you know that I’ve met with when we were trying to get them to do CRM were like, well I’ll just fire all the sales reps who don’t use the CRM. Well I’ve never seen that happen. You know, it’s never the case.


    Jason: And I have threatened that in the past when I’ve been a VP of sales or been told to threaten that from higher up and yeah, it never happens. And I also fundamentally know if you do it and you bring in new people, I mean like you’re talking about fundamentally, it’s just a, it’s a function of what makes sense. Right? Square peg in the round hole.


    Adam: Well, I’ll tell you something really funny that’s related to this. So one of the things, you know, kind of working in Syria and all this time, my natural assumption was that every company had a CRM. And when we started Spiro, what we realized is that actually they don’t. And so Spiro has customers, big steel manufacturers, logistics firms, all kinds of companies, big sales teams running everything on Excel and stuff like that. 


    Jason: And not, and not Excel like with Google sheets where they’re shared stuff. It’s these sheets where they’re, yeah, I met a, a month or so ago, I was at a trade show and uh, met a company there in the roofing industry and they, uh, $15 million a year in revenue on spreadsheets


    Adam: Like, so I, I mean, I met with, uh, you know, we were pitching a client who’s a fortune 500 company, I’m going to call them iron mountain. But it doesn’t have to be them. Maybe it is, I’m not going to say, and uh, they have a sales team, uh, one of their divisions that every week they fax in all of the people that they called from their printed out spreadsheets. And I’m like, you gotta be kidding me. Where are we here?


    Jason: And just to confirm, depending on when you’re listening to this, this episode was also recorded in the year 2020.


    Adam: Right. And this was last year or so maybe. But they were like, well, we, you know, we corporate IT can’t get to us to help us with this. We don’t know what to do. So this is what our strategy is. And they had Salesforce for order management. So when a customer bought something, yeah, they’d go key it into Salesforce. And that was the first point at which they knew that there was a prospect in their pipeline when they had the PO. Here’s the point. So my point is, I’m sorry. So if CRM is really something that’s going to help everybody, why are these guys doing that? Isn’t it a 100% of the market is like, Oh yeah, well everybody’s got CRM. I mean it’s supposed to like 40% which is what I’m kind of estimating at this point.


    Jason: Right. Well, I mean, I think it’s because if salespeople are good at the selling part and not the admin part, they’re generating money. And then there’s no, no evolutionary pressure on the business to say, well, we’re missing opportunities. We’re losing money. So we better have a system in place and make people use it and have that shift. Right.


    Adam: And since most of the software companies out there are run by engineers who, I have many friends who are engineers, I have nothing about engineers, you know, they’re like, okay, CRM is a problem. We’re gonna fix it. We’ll make it the buttons bigger and the fields easier to put stuff in and you know, blah, blah, blah, you know, and do this stuff and maybe salespeople will use it and it’s, but it’s, no, it’s just this fundamental issue that that’s not going to happen.


    Jason: So here’s what’s interesting is on the consulting side, I have many companies I work with that need help with their CRM, using it, like all of this stuff we’re talking about, that’s always challenging. And then we’re essentially saying it’s never going to work better. Some things from management, also the order, you know, putting things orders in and then moving them forward. Like that’s the value of the CRM. But you’re right, like knowing what opportunities or potential clients and prospects are out there prior to that actual order being placed. Most of the time you just literally have no idea and you know, just hold sales reps accountable to their quota and their numbers and say here, do this production, but I have no way of tracking your activity. And so it’s interesting because on one side I have that part that I’m dealing with companies.


    Jason: And then the other side, which is something I’ve said for at least a year now, and we’ll say it right now, it’s 2020 like why aren’t we manually entering anything anyway? Like why aren’t we just thinking stuff anywhere in our lives? Right? Think of all the stuff that  is automated now that you don’t have to, I mean, I can literally talk into my phone and get food delivered within a half hour, like goes to your point, right? I’m, I’m basically setting you up, which is, you know, why would you even have to enter anything into a CRM anyway? It’s 2020.


    Adam: Yeah, it’s a real conundrum. I mean, you know, I think that the software vendors in the CRM space are just thinking about it wrong. That’s my point of view. And then the big successful ones like Salesforce, who’s a great company, you know, they’ve got a product which depends on like tens of thousand ad-ons to make it better. And you know, if you, you want to spend, you know, money for Salesforce, then add a lot of stuff together to it. You can do some of the things


    Jason: And paying somebody who has a bachelor’s degree in Salesforce and potentially a master’s degree in Salesforce to then be able to actually make it your own.


    Adam: Exactly. And that’s great. And you know, I’m sure for some companies that’s definitely the way to go. But at spiro. You know, our kind of point of view was, well, you know, if we didn’t have a legacy product like Salesforce, how would we make it, what would it do just by itself. So we were able, we had the benefit of, of starting the company at a time where we could take advantage of all of this voice recognition and natural language processing and stuff like that to kind of build a solution that, I mean frankly people don’t have to use, I mean this is not the goal. Like isn’t that what you want? Forget about talking something into your phone. Call somebody. All the notes go in. It sets the reminder cause it heard you say, Hey Jason, I’ll call you back next Tuesday, you know, or whatever you and then you know, like, and even summarizes it. So later when you go back and want to know what happened, you don’t have to like read like five pages of the transcription. You can just see, Oh yeah, this was the summary of it. I mean, wouldn’t that be the dream? Why don’t we do that instead?


    Jason: That then you just don’t have to do anything. Just sell. Right.


    Adam: Exactly. I mean, you still have to think, you know, hopefully and listen really well and all those core sales skills. But you know, you don’t have to worry, you know, if you’re in the moment with a prospect, I mean there’s some people who feel like taking their own notes helps engage their mind and think about it. But there’s other people who just want to be in the flow and working with it, you know? And, and so if the software can do that, great for you. You know, there are some people who are better at follow up reminders than another, so the software can help you with that, you know? So there’s a lot of things that have just for the individual sales person that this type of approach can help


    Jason: That’s it for part two. Make sure to subscribe everywhere that podcasts are available, iTunes, Stitcher, SoundCloud, Spotify, Google play. Everywhere that podcasts are available, you should go find it. Made sure to subscribe so you can get all the new episodes and if possible, leave a rating or review. All of those really help. And I appreciated it and I see all of those. So thank you for everyone that who does that and as always, keep in mind that everything in life is sales. People remember the experience you gave them.


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The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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