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E137: Crillin’ It with Mark Kosoglow – Part 4 of 4

January 5, 2024


How can today's salespeople effectively navigate information overload, build trust, and make meaningful connections in a rapidly evolving sales landscape?


This is the last installment of the conversation I had with Mark. 

In Part 4, Mark and I talk about:


  • Providing your customer with killer information
  • Who your customers actually trust
  • Watching out for confusion and change management overload
  • Winning requires being curious plus not stopping until you are done
  • How to hire great sales reps
  • Grit


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Mark’s Info:


As a teenager, watching 14 videos in the back storeroom on a 7″ black and white TV to learn how to sell shoes at the mall was a great foundation. Running a small business with 200+ employees taught me how to be organized. Creating a highly profitable sales territory from one dead for a decade was hard work. Managing 12 salespeople across 9 states cemented my sales philosophy.

Building a sales team with, by far, the best, smartest, hardest working people I’ve ever worked with…well, that’s an honor and privilege I get to enjoy every day. 

LinkedIn: 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/mkosoglow/

Twi
tter: https://twitter.com/GIDselling

Website: 
http://www.getitdoneselling.com/

Also check out: 
https://www.outreach.io/

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  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome back to another episode of the sales experience podcast. My name is Jason Cutter and welcome to the final part of my conversation with Mark Kosoglow. We are talking sales engagement experience hiring in this episode, recruiting what it looks like to find a good salesperson. If you’re a salesperson, you’re looking for a job and you want to know how to land a good sales role at a great company, Mark is going to give you some gems on what that looks like, what the right fit is, and again, this is not about you selling yourself on why you could be a good fit or understanding the rules of the game so you can play the game and game the system in order to get your foot in the door. But this is more of if it’s a good fit. If you have these attributes, what Mark and I are going to talk about in this final section, you know that one is key and also if you have the real talents and abilities and the desire to be successful versus unsuccessful in a sales role.


    Jason: Because one of the things is, and we don’t touch on it in this episode, is the fact that a lot of salespeople can get their foot in the door, can sell themselves. They get started and then what happens when the rubber’s not really hitting the road and the results aren’t there? That’s where a lot of salespeople end up getting, let go, getting fired, getting moved, getting discipline, things like that. So that’s not the goal of this. The goal isn’t to help you game the system to be able to get your front door. It’s for you to identify, are you that kind of person who wants to work in sales, work hard, have the right attributes, be curious, and then create a connection and communication with somebody. So enjoy this part four and I will see you at the end.


    Mark: I just read this awesome Gardner report for CSOC for last quarter. It talked about 89% of buyers say they get great information in a sales call. So if you think that you’re going to give, you’re going to differentiate yourself by giving better or more accurate information. You’re wrong because almost 90% of people say they get great information. So that’s table stakes. That’s not a differentiator anymore. It used to be a differentiator. Then 66% of those, and Jason, this is like the one that kind of blew my mind. 66% of the people say they trust both vendors. So guess what? You’re not going to build a better relationship and that the information that those vendors give contradicts. And so you’re leaving this buyer in this state where, uh, you know what? I trust my brother, I trust my sister, but I feel like they’re both lying.


    Jason: Somebody’s lying, somebody’s lying about something cause the stories don’t match.


    Mark: That’s exactly right. So what does a buyer to do in that situation? Right. And that’s where it was getting more and more complex is because the amount of information that continues to pile up, the more information that you have, it makes sense that the more of it would contradict. And so I think that that’s where this Gardner report says that that a new type of seller is evolving, which is a sense maker, someone that can make sense of all the information for the buyer so that they don’t have to do all the work of trying to make it make sense on their own.


    Jason: Yeah. Then that makes sense. I could totally see that. Cause you know, I think that is one of those, you know, to your point is that the world is getting complex. There’s so much stuff hitting us, personal and business life all the time. It’s just everywhere, input and data. And so what do you do with all of that? And somebody in an organization is just trying to make the right decision to help them and their job or their company or help you know them and their boss and that relationship, whatever their metrics are. And the last thing they want to do is make a mistake. And in my experience, if there’s too much information, it’s confusing. There’s competing stories, right? There’s his and hers and it’s different, you know, natural response just going to be to shut down and do nothing unless you know, the person higher up is requiring them make a decision, but then they’re going to take the safest road possible and they’re not going to risk anything if it’s unclear.


    Mark: Well, confusion plus change management plus, no. Uh, my CEO told me this one time and I thought it was awesome as he said, businesses are organizations where everything has been built to resist buying stuff. And so someone actually has to take their political capital and put it on the line in the, with their peers or their people that they report to or the people that report to them and say, listen, I’m going to, you know, upset this inertia of not buying, buy something and look at my political capital says if they should pay off and if it doesn’t, you look bad. Right? And so I think that like when you add all of those three up, like it’s very difficult to get somebody to buy something these days. And so, uh, no, I think that’s why if you can take off a couple of them, you know, you can tick off the, you can make sense of it so that they’re not confused. You can help them feel safer about putting their political capital in the organizational align, if you can do those sorts of things that I think you win. But I don’t know if people thought about that 20 years ago.


    Jason: Yeah, no, there just seems to be so much more concern about doing anything with it. And maybe it’s always just been that way, but you know, now we’re just seeing it at a different level with the, you know, different transparency or on the, you know, the business side and so much, you know, phone, email, online, you know, just at a different scale.


    Mark: Yeah. Because I don’t know if there’s just more people selling stuff there, you know, I dunno, there’s more, there’s obviously a lot more noise in the world, but I think as a seller, like that’s where we live right now. That you know, that people in the generation before us had some kind of thing that was similar to what we’re dealing with. Sellers figured out that the average and mediocre sellers don’t.


    Jason: And I want to say like my, my instant gut reaction is yes, there’s more sellers selling more things. I think there’s more sellers selling technology and they’re doing it in a, in a phone, in a, uh, you know, voice outreach, email, you know, all these campaigns hitting people up online. But I’m going to guess, like you said, the previous generation would have said, yeah, but we were having to compete against blah, blah, blah. Or there was a lot of people, you know, sending us direct mail or wanting me to, you know, do a yellow page ads or, you know, whatever that looked like. So I’m going to guess, I mean, there’s always something, right? We can always say, well back when I was a kid we had this but you know, or we didn’t have and uh, you know, there’s something for every generation, which is funny. So then the last question is, is when hiring sales people, what attributes do you look for like in your experience, like in that interview process, like what attributes do you look for know you think make for a successful sales person?


    Mark: Yes, we have some pretty specific things here at outreach, but I’ll give you like my generic one. So I have this equation, right, which is effort, which is how hard you’re willing to work. Like if it’s 5:00 PM and you’re at 96 phone calls, will you stay to make the last four to get your hundred like, or are you going to leave because it’s five o’clock like effort plus curiosity and curiosity comes in two flavors. One is internal curiosity. Why do we sell like this? Why is my product the best? Why should I sell professional services? Why do we charge more than our competitors? How are we different like that, that internal curiosity. Then there’s external curiosity, which is Jason like, let me understand your challenges. I really want to understand your pain. I want to understand the market that I’m selling into right now. So yeah, effort plus curiosity and those, it’s two flavors of it.


    Mark: And then the last is making a connection, which is I think that people are losing the ability to make connections. If I said, if it’s raining outside and you’re in the office and I say, Jason, I’ll sell you this umbrella. I think you, a lot of people would just be like, I don’t need an umbrella. But then when they would walk outside, they’d be like, I wish I had, I wish I had an umbrella. And they won’t even remember the fact that you’ve tried to sell them one. You have to say, Jason, it’s raining outside. You have on your Cole Haan $300 nice shoes. You’re going to get them wet and ruin them. If you don’t have this umbrella, I think that you should purchase this umbrella. So you have made us very explicit connection between the value and the pain. And so that’s where that internal and external curiosity become important is what you learn internally. You connect to the external stuff that you’ve learned. And I think that ability to make connection is being lost on people. So you have to do it very explicitly. So those are the three things I look for is if somebody will work hard, are they curious? And then can they make a connection with the information that they learn?


    Jason: Yeah. And I think a lot of that stuff will come up in the interview process, in the hiring process. And then obviously, you know, the key is is when somebody does start in a position for any sales people who are listening to this, whatever you said in the interview, whatever got you to the job, now it’s time to actually do it and follow through. Not talking about how you’ll stay till five 15 or five 30 or six o’clock to make those four extra phone calls, but then actually doing it and you know, putting in the effort, being curious and then making those connections.


    Mark: Hard work is like one of the hardest things to assess an interview. And I can’t tell you how many people have worked really hard to get an interview and then didn’t work hard after they had that job.


    Jason: I’ve seen that so many times. You’re like, this person should be amazing. They put in so much effort, they jumped through all our hoops, they did what they were supposed to do, and then literally throw them in there and uh, it all seems to go out the window. Like they sold you on the job. That’s downside or the game you’ve got to play when hiring salespeople is they’re going to sell you. And then, you know what happens after that.


    Mark: Yeah. Well, we’ve done, we’ve kind of been tried to get creative on measuring that for card factor. And so we do, uh, we do two things. The first thing that we do is, have you ever read the book grit by Angela Duckworth?


    Jason: No.


    Mark: Super cool book. Now she’s an academic, you know, I don’t know. Wonder how much grit not academic hat needs to have. I’m sure it’s a lot.


    Jason: It’s a lot for reading and research and whatnot. Yeah,


    Mark: Yeah. Right. I got to pound through these three books in the library before I get my coffee. And I’m sure they had their own level, but she has a one of these quizzes now, you know, I’m sure has your wife ever come up to you and be like, Hey listen, I want to find out what Star Wars character you are or what house,


    Jason: Oh yeah. All of those online quizzes and things that happened. Yeah. Yeah.


    Mark: She has like one of those where you can go through and you can answer and it tells you this is how much grit you have. So what what we do is I then say I don’t care what the score is cause it’s like a Facebook quiz. It doesn’t mean thing. I say, but I want you to tell me why your score is wrong. And so what you get to see is most people are lower than they thought. You get to see a little bit of fight. Like if somebody tells me I’m not, I don’t have as much grit as I think I do. Like I have an emotional response because it’s so important. Yeah.


    Jason: Go screw yourself. Watch this. Here’s some grit for you. Yeah.


    Mark: What we do is there’s a question and it says, mr hard worker and everybody instantly says, that’s pretty much like me, and so, but I I, I contend that all right. If you’re a hard worker then your wife, your husband, your mom, your dad, your friends, they have some story to tell about you that says what a hard worker you are. And like I want to hear this story and you can tell when somebody’s, when work is important to somebody. They have their defining story of how people talk about them and talk about how they work like right on the tip of their tongue. Even though it’s a weird kind of question to ask and you can feel out. I had this one guy that said, my parents grew up in Europe. They bought a three quarter acre lot and shipped downtown Chicago and our house was on one corner of it.


    Mark: They made our house into a farm. Like they had an Eastern European, they had animals and gardens and he was his dad every day on the weekend. Made him get up at 5:00 AM to go work the garden. And so one day you woke up and he’s like, that guy, you know, you know, he paid him a little bit and he’s like, you know, I have enough money. I don’t need to do the garden. I want to go out with my friends today. He goes, and that’s why you’ll be doing it for free today, son. And he learned in that moment that like work isn’t about money. Work is about like doing the stuff that needs to be done and like you’re gonna either have to do it for free or you’re going to get paid to do it. You might as well get paid to do it and do your best. And like that was like a, an awesome story that was just right on the tip of somebody telling us, said, you know what? This person who has a life of work, a culture of work. And so that’s kinda how we done it a little bit. But, uh, it’s been fun trying to figure out how to assess hard work


    Jason: And how to assess the truth from salespeople in interviews. And then, uh, you know, what’s going to translate, I’m sure. Perfect. Well, I appreciate you being on the show. This was a lot of fun, especially with all of your experience and you know, literally the same kind of stuff. Where is the best place for people to find you, your own stuff, your business stuff, your podcasts, all of that. And now I’m going to include all of this in the show notes for anyone listening, but literally where’s the best place?


    Mark: Uh, LinkedIn is the best place to find me. And then, uh, the podcast is called the sales engagement podcast. We have about 130, 135 episodes. Mine are kind of like your station 15, 20 minutes long. Super quick kidding. You know, I try to catch people off guard and do it very organically, but uh, yeah, so that’s the best way to get ahold of me is LinkedIn.


    Jason: Perfect. Well, I appreciate you being on the show and, uh, and having some fun here as we, uh, ramble on about sales.


    Mark: Cool, man. Great talking.


    Jason: Thanks and, I appreciate everyone tuning into sales experience podcast. Make sure to go to cutterconsultinggroup.com you/podcast. Find this episode. All of Mark’s show notes. And as always, keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


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The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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