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E126: Digital Sales Mastery with Jamie Shanks – Part 1 of 4

January 4, 2024


How has the changing world of digital sales influenced the way businesses find and connect with customers?


My guest for this week is Jamie Shanks from Sales For Life. We go through an Account-Based Marketing and Selling journey on our way to understanding Digital Sales Mastery. [All while Jamie is walking on a treadmill desk!]. 

Enjoy part 1 of the 4-part mini-series.


In Part 1, Jamie and I talk about:


  • What “Digital Sales” means
  • The phone isn’t dead
  • How long (well…short) most people are in their current role, and how that plays into selling to buyers
  • Making sure to know all the stakeholders that should be involved
  • Triggers for starting the right conversations, in the right way



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Jamie’s Info:

Jamie Shanks is the CEO of Sales for Life, the world’s largest Social Selling training program for mid-market and enterprise companies. Sales for Life has trained over 100,000 sales and marketing professionals, in dozens of industries. Jamie’s workshops have been delivered across 6 continents, for brands such as Microsoft, Thomson Reuters, Oracle, American Airlines & Intel. He’s also the author of the best-selling book Social Selling Mastery & SPEAR Selling.

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  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome to the sales experience podcast. This is Jason cutter and you are listening to another special guest episode this time. It’s with Jamie Shanks coming all the way from Toronto, Canada. This one was a super fun one to record. We did it on video and if you catch this on the video on YouTube, on the website at all, you will see him walking in front of a green screen on a walking treadmill the whole time or talking and literally he’s walking. I’m sitting here a super fun conversation. He knows his stuff. He’s in the digital landscape for account-based management, enterprise sales. There’s so much in all of these parts that we’re going to do for this mini-series of guests episodes for everybody from somebody who owns a company and they’re looking at the marketing. How they run their sales team. If you’re a manager and dealing with the sales reps, especially B to B, but everything down to if you’re a B to B sales rep or a sales in general, things you can learn to help with how you look at sales, how you operate, what successful salespeople do.


    Jason: We’re going to cover that all in these parts and these four sections of the mini-series of my conversation with Jamie Shanks, so enjoy. Make sure to go to cutterconsultinggroup.com/podcast or you can click on the podcast link and go there and download the transcript or read the transcript. Also, check out all of Jamie links are going to be on there. You can find him on LinkedIn or his website salesforlife.com which he’ll mention at the very end, but until then, listen to the show. Here’s part one and enjoy. 


    Jason: Welcome to the sales experience podcast. On today’s episode, I have Jamie shanks joining all the way from Toronto, Canada, and I had an intro plan. I wanted to say it, but as you can tell, Jamie, if you’re watching the video of this, Jamie is walking through Toronto right now. Jamie, welcome to the show. 


    Jamie: Really appreciate you having me. This is fantastic. 


    Jason: It’s so awesome. As soon as we started this, you’re on a treadmill desk, but you’re walking around. If anyone’s watching this or listening, it’s so awesome. I love it. I’ve never talked to anyone who’s on a treadmill desk or for a podcast and I don’t know, it’s just super fun. I’m excited.


    Jamie: Well, fantastic. I am at four hours and 27 minutes thousand calories in and I’m still fired up


    Jason: And I feel super lazy because I think I’m at four hours straight of sitting and recording and working on stuff and a burning, uh no calories doing that. So props to you for sure. So Jamie, for anyone who doesn’t know, obviously we’re going to have some links and all the information at the end of the show, but you know you’re an author, multiple books, CEO of a company called sales for life, which is focused on digital sales mastery, which I really want to dive into because I have a little bit of experience in that. But you guys are the master. And first off, obviously I’m jealous because I love, love, love the name of your company, sales for life and only marginally jealous about it. But tell me, let’s talk about digital sales and what that means and kind of you know, what you’re attacking with your business.


    Jamie: The easiest way to look at it is whether we and I, we as sellers like it or not, our customer is going to learn with or without us. And so at some point we have to step kind of step back and look at the customer and say, how does the customer want to learn as a customer want to interact? And if you look at your own personal life, you’ve evolved, you’ve become more digital, more mobile, you’re connecting socially. And all that we do is we have the number one prospecting methodology to blend people and customers together. That’s the easiest way to look at digital sales. It is a compliment or augmenting the way that sellers traditionally sell today. It’s not a replacement of the phone. This is how do I apply triggers, referrals, insights, competitive intelligence in a digital format to our myself on key accounts and do engage a customer differently.


    Jason: Okay. And so just to clarify, what you’re talking about is especially business to business, account based sales, marketing, targeting, kind of, you know, nurturing until it gets to the point where it’s at a salesperson and then they take over, right?


    Jamie: Well, it’s 100% our expertise is around B2B selling, but it doesn’t have to be account based selling. This could be green fields going after a new vertical or a new geography. It can be used in both contexts. And my first book, social selling mastery was predicated on this Greenfield expansive concept of tackling a new market using social media. And then spear selling was focused on the account-based side of that because a lot of our global enterprise customers were saying, Hey man, I have 10 accounts, 10 accounts globally that I care about. How do I go deeper and wider in those accounts?


    Jason: Right? Yeah. Which I think is important because those are two different approaches and from the companies that I have worked with, especially on the consulting side, is there always seems to be this balance. Sometimes it’s a race for new clients and how do you expand what you have, but then they’re missing the going deeper, right? So going within the organization, how do you sell more? If it’s something where there’s maybe more buyers or more siloed sections within a company where you can expand your footprint in there. And the relationship and then that balance.


    Jamie: Yeah, I think we’re, a lot of this came from, and the book the challenger customer did a fantastic job of articulating the fact that the buying committee is getting bigger and cross-functional and it’s you know, I think the quote was 7.4 decision makers, champions and influencers in a business. And they use this concept called the spinning plate theory. And I really do think the spinning plate theory is right that Hey, I’m selling into human resources, but I also need to have consensus from the CFO and operations and, and not everybody’s learning at the same speed or on the same path. And so how do I as the quarterback, that’s essentially my role as the seller. How do I take my internal stakeholders, you know, customer success and solution architects and everybody, and then how do I align them to the customers, key stakeholders? And there’s so many digital relationships at stake here.


    Jamie: I don’t think the average seller understands that, Hey, my single threaded one guy that I’ve been dealing with and I’ve been logging all my contacts in CRM based on that guy’s conversation, how risky that is from a business’s standpoint. And so we’re really trying to debunk that myth that realize, Hey, guess what the average North American and Western European, right? It’s keeping the job for only two and a half years. So your database is just self cleansing in the wrong way, right? It’s diminishing 5% every month. And so how am I using some of those triggers which are online free up pieces of information to give myself an understanding? Do I have a competitive advantage here? Do I have, am I at a disadvantage? Where’s risk versus threats all available to you free if you just knew how to leverage it.


    Jason: Yeah, and I think one key part from what you said a couple minutes ago is you know with somebody with the average lifespan of being two-ish years, right? For somebody before they change jobs. If you’re selling business to business and your, it’s like a key account relationship and your dealing with this one person. I see this a lot these days where it’s I got my one buyer why one point of contact, the one person who is my champion of whatever it is. It could be a service, it could be a product, whatever that is because that one champion that champion leaves, hopefully you can track that champion down that buyer down at their new organization. Yeah. But now there’s a whole, and one of the things, and I think this is what you’re getting at as well, or I think for anyone listening, this is important to know if you’re doing B2B sales is you may have your one champion or one buyer, but you’ve got to know everybody else in that organization. All the stakeholders around that. In the event there is that vacuum and you’ve got other people involved so you’re not left out. Because I know, Hey, if you’ll lose your buyer and then you’d go to somebody else and say, Hey, I’ve been working with them, they’re gonna be like, I don’t care. Like who are you? Like I don’t know who you are.


    Jamie: How many times you and I both own consulting businesses, right? How many times have you not eaten your own dog food and this has happened to me a million times where you didn’t socially surround your customer and develop relationships with all stakeholders and understand the priorities of each of those stakeholders. You unfortunately saw one of your decision-makers leave and you thought, okay, that sucks, but now I’m going to have to talk to the other key stakeholders and then you quickly discover A, they don’t know who you are. B, their priorities are so off a whack of what you do. It was like you don’t have any tracks from that account altogether. You might as well actually target the account that that key stakeholder went to because you probably have a higher probability of winning that account now. Then you do the one you were just chasing. Yeah.


    Jason: Yeah. Because if you don’t have that key account stakeholder, that buyer, whatever, you know, whatever term you want to use, depending on your vertical, if they leave and you don’t have them and you’ve put all your eggs in that one basket, I guarantee based on my experience, everyone else left behind that you might try to talk to, well, probably feel like you’re a threat to them. Whether it’s consultants like us or you’re selling, you know, branding or marketing or advertising, everyone else is going to feel threat either directly to their job or they just don’t like change. Yeah. So now what kind of stuff are you doing? Because this whole realm is new to me. This is fascinating. You know what kind of stuff, when you’re talking about the digital sales, are you really looking at like, what’s some really cool things right now? End of 2019 it’s so crazy, but where yo literally weeks away from a new decade, what are you seeing in that realm and coming up and you know where it’s going? 


    Jamie: Yeah. And if you look at my business for seven years, we’ve polished one skew. We literally do one thing, you know, other than speaking engagements and workshops to get people engaged and interested, everything is around this platform we call digital sales mastery. And if you look at what’s inside there and being polished, actually what is old is new. We are really starting to, over the years we discovered this concept of enduring frameworks and Franklin Covey actually has always done a masterful job of explaining it this way. So if you look at Franklin Covey’s content, they look at it as these are enduring sales plays or frameworks that will last the test of time. And so that’s what I think people have done wrong with social selling is they looked at it as a gimmick or a trick or a tip or a tactic.


    Jamie: And guess what? Platforms change, ideas change. Like we have to refilm our content every quarter because the platforms are always changing. That was the old way. Now you have to understand that triggers, referrals, insights, competitive intelligence. The core basis to key account planning is not going to change. You must capture triggers, referrals, insights, competitive intelligence on a key account. Now the mechanism at which you were acquiring that information or engaging the customer will evolve. But once you solidify a prospecting methodology that actually has a foundation, then you can just swap in the place. So I’ll give you a place now to make it tactical, give you plays that are evolving because technology is evolving. So right now in LinkedIn, your buyer is those called CEOs. Right now I could tell you every CEO that took a job in San Francisco that meets your ideal customer profile in the last 90 days.


    Jamie: Okay? So that’s a data point that I as a seller five to 10 years ago, didn’t have. Now I’ve got a compelling trigger to start a conversation with CEOs that are new to businesses when they’re new, they want to bring in people process technology. Okay, so we’ll go a little bit step further. You and I service the sales community as an example or the marketing community. Well, human capital investment is one of the biggest leading indicators to growth of initiatives. So right now using again tools like LinkedIn, I can map every company that is either accelerating or decelerating or divesting marketing, human capital people as a trigger to understand, let’s say it was a very specific type of marketing around pay-per-click, or if it was a type of sales around sales excellence as an example, I can see the growth of accounts or the, you know, the deceleration of human capital in any particular market, in any geography in the world as a trigger to start conversations. So we have customers that are growth drivers. So whenever they see growth in an account, it’s a compelling reason to start a conversation. We also have technology customers where their use case is when are struggling or when companies are retracting departments like operations. Perfect. You can map all that. It’s not free and available information if you know how to harness it. So that’s an example of using the power of LinkedIn to, again, fuel a sales play.


    Jason: Right. And I think what’s fascinating because all of that you wouldn’t have gotten not even that long ago, right? And not in the, it’s not in the distant future, but in the AR in the distant past. But then the near past you wouldn’t have had that and that visibility, it would have taken a lot of work. Now it’s available. And then the key is how do you use that? And especially from a sales management, sales leader, owner of a sales based organization, you know, obviously what you want is you want your sales reps selling as much as possible. Having those conversations as much as possible and not hunting or researching or doing a lot of that stuff. I mean I’m a big fan in what I’ve always done, which has been a part of organizations where there’s initiatives that are driving inbound leads, inbound inquiries to keep the salespeople in people in their prime kind of focus and zone of conversations, relationships, demos, you know, and moving and deals forward. And then also if they’re doing outbounds, serving them up the right data at the right speed so that they can just stay again in that sweet spot.


    Jamie: Well, and I’ll give you a tactical example of a global enterprise customer of ours. Like you just mentioned, inbound was an important piece to your growth driver. I’ll tell you something that one of our customers have been doing. Imagine taking digital sales and social selling data, which is essentially relationship mapping. It’s relationship mapping and engaging in a bold and different way. At the same time, you’ve got artificial intelligence, machine learning that is if you know how to kind of parse through your own data, your content consumption story of all of your marketing insights inside those stories are buying intent, so what this customer had recognized is that if they could parse through all of their data records to understand what does ideal look like, who actually cares?


    Jason: Alright. That’s it for part one of my conversation with Jamie shanks. Again, cutterconsultinggroup.com you can find the show notes, you can find his links, you can find the transcript and come back next time for part two. As always, keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


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The Danger of Doing Too Much as a Sales Leader Alright – so maybe they don’t need to go 90. In true servant leadership mode, you would go way more than 10% of the way to your team. But you have to be careful, as a sales leader. The inclination might be to do it all for them. To help them close their sales. To make excuses for them to your leadership as to why they aren’t closing more sales. Especially considering the very high likelihood that you are a sales manager because you were a great salesperson in the role that you are now managing. And there is a slight chance that you are a player-coach…so you are leading and selling. This can make it really tough not to want to run out on the field to win the game each time. But that doesn’t scale. That doesn’t lead to increased results. You can only sell so much as one person. Creating a Culture of Ownership So, you need to have people on your team that are coming to you. What does that look like? The pinnacle is a salesperson who doesn’t close a deal, comes to you right away and asks for feedback. They want some critiques as to where they could have done things better, different that would have led to the desired result – a closed sale. That takes a healthy level of ego by a professional who has the ultimate growth mindset. They know there are always ways to improve. They want to improve. And they are willing to risk their ego (and the internal, protective, primal part of our brain that doesn’t want to risk our place in the tribe) by asking for feedback that could be negative. Whenever you can, encourage that type of response. Ensure that the team knows that the team itself, and you as their leader, is a safe space – where the goal is to improve, grow, win and that everything done to support each other is done in that mode. They truly have to feel safe to share their mistakes and to get support in learning how to do more, better. Feedback That Drives Growth Part of this takes team and individual meetings that are actually filled with positive support. That doesn’t mean it’s always positive, motivational fluff. It’s not even about the shallow strategy of the feedback sandwich. Its about being real, honest, and empathetic – meaning “I see you are here, I know you want to be there, I will help you get there – even if its hard and it means saying hard things.” It should never feel mean or abusive or like an attack. But you can give some really direct feedback that will sting that ego I mentioned, but the person will know the intent behind it. The second part is hiring this type of person. Hiring people for the team that wants to win, grow, succeed. And they know that you don’t get better by being coddled, sheltered, or protected. You want people who don’t like the thought of perpetually living safely in their comfort zone. And they are excited about the opportunity to be a part of a team that pushes everyone, empathetically, outside of their comfort zone. Are You Leading or Just Managing? If you find yourself as a leader having to push your team, or going to them most of the time, or most of the way mentally – then they see you as a manager not a leader. They see you as someone who manages them, pushes them, and wants them to do things they don’t want to do. I have written some blogs here that go into what your role should be – as a leader, not a manager. Pulling people along with you, inspiring people, and supporting yourself with a team of people who want to win. Not just those that want to show up, do as little as they can and hopefully go unnoticed (yet – complain about not making enough money and how the comp plan isn’t fair, or the leads are bad, or their schedule means they can’t be successful.) Make sure your team knows that they need to come to you – at least 51/49. They should be asking for help, guidance, training, feedback, and support more than you are having to push it down onto them.
By Jason Cutter February 3, 2025
If you have seen the movie Hitch, then you know the scene. Will Smith’s character (Hitch) is trying to coach Kevin James’ character (Albert) on how to finish out his upcoming first date. He is giving him pointers, one being that if his date fumbles with her keys at the door, it could mean she wants a kiss. So Hitch wants to see if Albert knows what to do – for a good night kiss. Hitch gives him the advice “you go 90 percent, and then wait for her to go 10%” which Albert then asks “wait for how long?” Hitch: “as long as it takes.” Albert leads in, Hitch is holding back to see if Albert will wait, and then Albert goes all the way and gives him a kiss. Hitch gets upset, and says “You go 90, I go 10 – you don’t go the whole 100%.” The Sales Analogy Kissing our prospective customers is not acceptable (just ask HR!). But the concept is the same. You don’t want to ever make 100% of the effort for your prospective customers. You don’t want to be the one who is doing all the work. Fundamentally, it is not good practice to want the deal more than the other person. When you go your 90, you need to wait – as long as it takes – for the prospect to go to their 10. And I would say that you want to go somewhere between 10-49, in reality. How Successful Sales Professionals Balance Effort Successful sales professionals know how far they have to go to meet the prospect where they are, while also knowing how much effort the prospect needs to put in to show they are committed. Where most salespeople get in trouble is they get desperate. They want the sale (kiss) more than the other person and they go the full 100%. Of course, persistence is important. And you won’t get what you don’t ask for (although…if you have followed me for any length of time, you will know I am very against having to ask for the sale). But you also have to ensure that your prospects actually want what you are selling. And they want it for their reasons and their motivations. They are driven to pursue your production option(s). They must go 10, 40, 60% of the way to you. The Pitfall of Chasing Your Prospect Just like courtship and relationships – if you find yourself chasing and one-sided-pursing the other person then it means you want it more than they do. It also means they own you. You are essentially begging them for the relationship – convincing, manipulating, begging, bribing, persuading your way forward. Which means they consciously and/or subconsciously know that they are in control. Because if they say no, you will keep pursuing and offering solutions. In sales – that looks like a salesperson who is calling, emailing, stalking a prospect – making offers, offering discounts and trials, and trying to find any way to make deal work. They are going 90-100% of the way for the prospect, not requiring them to go anywhere towards the agreement. This will end terribly. If they do decide to buy – taking the discount, free trial, taking the sale bait – they will not be happy (since they weren’t bought in for their reasons), they will look for reasons confirming why they didn’t really want to buy anyway, and they will know that they own you. Your company will have to convince them on a regular basis to stay in the relationship. The Right Balance for Customer Ownership You fundamentally need that prospective customer to come to you. Not 100% where you are just an Order Taker. But potentially 51% of the way – so they want it more than you. The more you can get them across that 50/50 threshold, the more they will be a satisfied customer. But remember – at 51/49 – they still need persuading, they still need to understand the value of your product for where they ultimately want to be in their life/business, and they still need your support. They lean in the right amount, you lean in the right amount = sales magic!
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