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[752] Asking for the Sale

May 9, 2024



How can sales professionals effectively address and alleviate customer fears?

How can sales professionals effectively address and alleviate customer fears? What are some practical ways salespeople can create a sense of safety for their clients?


Sales is no longer about transactions but about interactions. Understand your customer's fears and work to alleviate them, employing the SAFE method—Successful At Fear Elimination.


This is an excerpt from one of my training sessions where I talked about some important closes that you should be using in sales.


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    Jason:

    When sales is done in a certain way, specifically what I found to be wildly successful, which is using the authentic persuasion pathway, again in whatever framework you're selling, whether it's b two b b two c, short sales cycle, long sales cycle, one call, close enterprise level to a business, to a consumer, doesn't matter. It's all about human to human. No matter what. Your job is to help a confused, worried, scared, excited person make the right decision for them and help them feel safe. And remember I mentioned this weeks ago, safe, S a F e is an acronym that I use meaning successful at fear elimination. Your job is to help them be safe, feel safe, that what they're going to do and what they're going to buy and what they're choosing is the right thing for them. So your job is to help them be successful at fear elimination. And that is your job, that is your duty to help them move forward.


    Jason:

    When it comes to closes, a lot of times I debate the fact that people, salespeople, trainers, gurus, other people, teach that you should use some closes, that you should ask for the sale, that the reason that most people aren't successful in sales is because they're not asking for the sale. They're not saying, hey, is this something you're interested in buying? Would you like to buy this today? Where I think that's correct. There's a lot of people who could be more successful in sales if they ask for the sale, especially people who are acting and operating more like order takers, where they're hoping someone wants to buy. They're hoping they trigger enough initiative and excitement in the other person or trust and value that that other person, that prospect, that lead, sees the value in it for themselves and says hey, I would like this. How do I sign up? That's what most of us in sales are always hoping for. But hope is a dangerous thing. It's a bad strategy for long term success in sales. And the key is that some people teach asking for the sale, asking to get them to buy, asking if they want to move forward.


    Jason:

    I under most circumstances disagree that that is the tactic that you should take, especially if you want to act as a sales professional. Right. And the biggest key, and im going to use this analogy, ive used it before. Every time I say it makes me laugh at the thought of it is lets look at an example. I want to give you an analogy of what happens in another profession, and I mention this one all the time because I think its very important, which is in the medical profession. So let's imagine that you have broken your arm. Right? So you broke your arm. Next thing you know, you're going to the emergency room.


    Jason:

    You're waiting there. They finally get you in. The doctor and the medical staff does their process, right? So they do x rays, they do exams, they're doing tests, they're doing all these things. Then they come back, right? Right. With the diagnosis. It says, your arm is broken. Obviously, you already knew that. Here's what happened.


    Jason:

    You have this kind of a fracture. We're going to need to re break it because it's already started healing. We need to reset it to the right place. We need to put in some pins and plates and screws, and then we need to put a cast on it. And then the doctor says, here is a brochure on spiral fractures. Here's a brochure on plates and pins and screws and everything you need to know about that. Um, if you'd like, I can send you a follow up email with some information so you can do some research. I'm sure there's some people that you need to talk to.


    Jason:

    Um, you know, and here's my card. So let me know if this is something you would be interested in. Oh, and by the way, if you do this by the end of the month, uh, we're doing a discount, so I can do it for 10% off, right? Like, that's ridiculous. You imagine if the doctor said that. Now imagine if the doctor said, try this. This is scenario number two, where the doctor says, all right, so arm is broken, plates and screws. Got to put a cast on it. Is this something that you would like to get taken care of today? Imagine if they said that, right? That in and of itself also seems and feels ridiculous that they would say that.


    Jason:

    And why is that? Why does that feel so off? Well, it's because you have gone there with the desire to fix a problem. They have identified that problem. They've given you the diagnosis, they've given you the prescription, and now you just want that solution. That's why you're there. And of course, they took an oath that says that they will not cause undue harm. That's one part of the hippocratic oath. And so based on that, they know that their role is to not cause you undue harm. And letting you walk out in pain would be a personal and professional failure in their minds.


    Jason:

    Right. The doctor that has taken this seriously as a professional would see that as failure. So they're not going to ask you. But that's the thing. That's what I'm talking about where sales coaches and trainers and the advice and people out there is ask for the sale. Right? Ask. Is it. Would you like to get your arm fixed today? Is that something you're interested in? Would you like to move forward with getting your arm fixed? Of course I want to get my arm fixed.


    Jason:

    Do you have any questions before we begin? Is a different approach, but would you like to do that? Uh, we've noticed that you have a tumor. Would you like to get that tumor removed? Should we, should we move forward with that? Like, that is, of course, a ridiculous example.

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By Jason Cutter January 8, 2025
Here we go – a new calendar for sales ops leaders. What will you do with it? More of the same? More band-aids and short-term solutions? More shelf-ware (products you buy with good intentions that end up living on a shelf instead of getting used)? Or more strategies, tactics, and solutions? Evolution or Revolution? Will you create/foster evolution? Will you incite a revolution? What does your company need most? There is no universal answer for what is the best route to take – when the company and team needs to evolve itself, the processes, and toolkit, and when you need to burn things to the ground and rebuild from the bottom up. Will this be the year you finally put in a CRM that matches your size, scale, and needs as a company? Or will this be the year you put in accountability and expectations to get your team to ACTUALLY use the CRM you already have and pay for? Real Training for Real Results Will this be the year you provide your leadership with leadership training and your salespeople with real sales training? Not the in-house stuff you keep trying to do or the assumption that if you hired the right people they should know what to do (which is not how humans and employees work). Or the ‘free’ online content you share with your team. But real, impactful and actionable training for your leaders and teams, like what I provide for companies. Will this be the year that you build an intentional and effective recruiting process that identifies and moves forward the candidates that will have the best chance of being that successful salesperson that your team needs? Will you build tests and hoops that allow you to identify a candidate’s true nature versus the nice, smooth, successful sales story they tell you in the interviews? Sales Processes: Best Practices or Best Excuses? Will this be the year that you build a sales process based on best practices of the right, successful salespeople on your team and roll it out as a required process, instead of as an option and/or nice to have sales process? Will you actually hold your paid employees to a standard that you know generates consistent, profitable results? Or will you continue to let your salespeople convince you that salespeople don’t need ‘scripts’ and processes (“Just let me do what I do best – show up and talk people into buying things.”)? Will this be the year that you hold you build in automated tech solutions for ensuring that your prospects and leads are moving through the pipeline in a consistent way? Will this be the year you hold your team accountable for making their follow up calls? Will this be the year you drive down your acquisition cost by making the most of the leads that already fill the sales pipeline? Leads and Reps: Not All Are Equal Will this be the year that you realize that not all leads are created equal, and not all salespeople should be treated the same? Where a lead in the hand on one rep could lead to significantly better results for everyone involved (including the potential customer), but in the hands of someone else it will statistically lead to nothing? Will this be the year you stop running the team like a communist-democracy (yes, I made that up), where everyone has a vote and they all feel like things should be fair, despite effort and results? Will this be the year that your team understands that their sales job doesn’t end once the deal is closed, an agreement is signed, partial or full payment is made? That the sale never stops? That your company and the customer only care about long term success, not the short-term benefit of a closed sale? Will this be the year that you help them do more, including after the ‘sale’ is done? Will this be the year that you fully leverage a mission, vision, and core values to ensure the right people are on the team and the wrong people identify themselves for removal? Will you use this to help facilitate change easier by anchoring everyone to both a destination (mission/vision) as well as the road map to get there (values)? The Hope for 2025 I hope for you, your team, your leaders, your company, and most of all – your future customers that you do all of the above (over the next 12 months). I hope you put these things in place, so your team can do less of the things that get in the way and more of the things that AI still can’t replace – helping other scared, confused, worried humans (prospects) who have goals, hopes, dreams, and a place they would rather be make the right, best decision for themselves. Here is your success in 2025!
By Jason Cutter January 7, 2025
The new year has rung in and feels like it is coming in at full speed. Here is my list of what your team most likely needs from you in 2025: Wisdom Guidance More Leadership Empathy Motivation Let’s run through each one, so you know what I think the focus should be. Wisdom Your team has information (just like your prospective customers). They have access to all the worlds knowledge – on your product, on sales, about human behavior. Whether they choose to utilize it or they want to just learn enough to be good enough to perform at some level that fits their mode – that is different. They don’t need you for information or facts, features, and data. They should already have that for your company in the forming of training, a knowledge base, your website, the brochure, your slides, etc. They are hoping that you bring the wisdom aspect into your role with them. They want you to help them do the right things with the knowledge and information. They are looking for the practical application of that info, that will help them succeed in their role. Stop giving them more data points, info, and stuff. Guidance Again, just like your prospects, your salespeople think they are the Hero of the story. They don’t need you to be the Hero as well. Stop telling them about how great you were as a sales rep, or all the things you would have done differently in that sale they failed to close. Be a Guide, not a Hero, for them. Guide them in their mission and help them succeed. Make it all about them and show them the path that they could take. But remember – it’s their path. You can’t jump in and close every sale for them. They have to learn – typically the hard way (falling down) – on their own so they can achieve their success. Make their mission and their journey about them and not you. More Leadership Your team wants leadership from you. And then more of it. They want less management. Management is about pushing and manipulation in order to get what you want. Leadership is about a vision and mission – destination – and pulling people on the journey along with you. If you need, study leadership to help you achieve a good balance of leading and managing (some amount of managing is always needed). You can also read all the leadership-related blog articles on here. :) To lead better, you will want to do more of the two following categories. Empathy Empathy is about encountering someone – where they are currently – discovering where they would rather be, and then caring about them enough to find ways to support them on their path. Not your path. Not your destination. But theirs. It’s the best skill you can have as a salesperson, and go figure – it is also vital for leadership (not a surprise…since persuasion is about leadership of the prospect). A lot of leaders I see think they know what each salesperson wants (money) and assume that they know how the salesperson will want to get there. Make sure you help your people get to where THEY want to get to. If you aren’t sure how to do that, see Hero section above – make it all about them, and not you. Motivation Even when they want you to show them the money, it’s not about the money. It’s what the money represents and/or will get them. But it’s never about the actual money part. Get to know what each person wants AND the why behind it. Go as deep as you can. Find out what they get out of bed each day for…and where the role and financial aspects of it fit in with what they want more of in their life. Again…if you haven’t noticed a theme yet - make it all about them! (Not about how much money you wanted to make when you were as salesperson, and what you spent that money on. No one cares about you…they only care about themselves.)  Conclusion When you focus on these five things (which are really subcategories of the same generally thing – Leadership) – you will fill in the gaps your team has, which should propel them to closing more deals and making more money. Which is also your goal for them!
By Jason Cutter January 6, 2025
Now you might think that each person you speak with needs the same thing they always did from you – information to help them make the right buying decision. Or to be sold to – depending on your old school sales mentality. Or a free trial, test drive, or something that will get their hands on the product (because it sells itself, right?). But what your prospective customers need from you in 2025, just like they did in 2024 and well before that, is guidance. Why Information is No Longer Enough They don’t need information. They have access to information. They have the internet. They have Google and YouTube. Like you and I, they could search about a problem they are having, read an article with steps or watch a video, and then get to solving their issue. As I have said many times, they need you for Guidance and Wisdom. They want you to help them make the right decision – yes, of course – but for them. Not your company. Not you based on your comp plan and motivations. But for them. Sales’ Bad Reputation: Why Guidance Matters More Than Ever Yes – they have always needed that as a customer, and of course there are salespeople that focus on providing that. But there are also the ones out there that end up giving sales a bad reputation because they aren’t focused on the customer’s actually needs and wants. Why does this matter in 2025? Because we now, thanks to the internet, have WAY TOO much information. It’s overwhelming. The last time you searched for something online, was it easier or harder to find what you needed? There are more companies, putting out more products and content, which leads to more options. Humans don’t do well with options. The Paradox of Choice is the principle that as the number of options goes up, the ability to make a decision decreases. Two to three options to choose from is usually best. Ever been to Red Robin and been paralyzed by choosing the right burger? Or the Cheesecake Factor and picking anything easily? (even just deciding on a category of food is hard there) I see a lot of companies that don’t understand this principle and salespeople who ‘clock in’ for work as a salesperson where they forget how what they do in their own life and how they make decisions. It’s like they switch into sales mode which means ‘showing up and throwing up’ facts, details, features, benefits. What Prospects Truly Want: Wisdom and Guidance Now – please note, I am not saying you don’t want to sell to your prospects the way you buy. That is a recipe for sales disaster. But you must be mindful of how you and most humans want to buy. They want you for your wisdom and guidance. Theoretically (insert sarcasm, for a lot of people in sales roles), you are a professional with the expertise and experience that allows you to determine what the best path would be for each of your prospects. You do an amazing amount of deep discovery, utilizing active listening and empathy to analyze where they are now versus where they would rather be. Then you provide a service, product, solution that will help them get there. Then you assume that based on your expertise and experience that your suggestion is the best one, and you move forward with the conversation and buying process. Gone are the days of needing to ask for the sale. If you are still asking for the sale you are operating in a weak sales capacity where you feel like they need to approve your recommendation. Challenges for 2025: Elevating Your Sales Conversations In 2025, challenge yourself to do the following in your sales conversations: Ask more, better, deeper questions during Discovery. Find out the What AND the Why. Save your credibility, trust building monologues for after Discovery. Assume the progress forward once you have identified their square peg need (to go with your square peg solution). Understand that Objections are indications of two things: they don’t trust you, and you missed something in the process. They need Wisdom and Guidance, not information.
By Jason Cutter January 2, 2025
As a sales ops leader, what can you do to help mitigate and thus reduce the level of cancelations/refunds/returns? The key, as I discussed in the blog for salespeople [ https://go.sellingeffectiveness.com/LI.12.30.PM ] and leaders [ https://go.sellingeffectiveness.com/LI.12.31.PM ], is more a matter of understanding and addressing buyer’s remorse. Understanding Buyer’s Remorse Just a short recap – buying something new requires change. The primal part of our mind fears the unknown (change). This means that every time your team sells to a new customer, that customer will be hit with panic, doubt, and fear at some point once the sale is done. Your team could do all the parts of the current sales process right, and buyer’s remorse will still kick it. Know that buyer’s remorse always happens. Sometimes it is slight, and that new customer gets themselves through it. Sometimes it is enough to get them to call/email/come back in and cancel (whatever that means for your industry). Here are the processes that you can put into place. These are similar to what the guidance was to sales leaders. But it is your responsibility to actually create them as repeatable, scalable processes. 1. Address Buyer’s Remorse During the Sales Process First – ensure the sales process includes a section of the conversation to address that some level of post-purchase ‘questions and concerns’ (you don’t need to call it doubt and remorse) can occur. The key is for your salespeople to let every new customer know, every single time, that if that does occur to call and/or email with the questions/concerns so they can talk through it. You and the team might be worried that by bringing it up it could cause it to happen, but setting expectations isn’t the same as a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you set the right expectations that align with human behaviors, and then it happens (the new buyer gets hit with questions/concerns), then it will build even more trust and credibility. To get this part of the sales conversation done every time, you can use some/all of the following: Updates to your scripting (assuming you actually provide scripting to your team…which hopefully you do!) Post sale checklist items – where the salesperson must acknowledge all of the sales process covered. This you can refer to later if there is an audit that reveals part(s) was missed Call/Video/Meeting recording review and audits for compliance Build it into your non-negotiable sales standards/requirements 2. Incorporate Financial Impacts into the Compensation Plan Second – affect them financially. You want to make big changes in what your team focuses on? Change their comp plan. Now I am not suggesting anything drastic. In fact, I think you should probably be kinder with the cancelations that you might currently be hitting them for. You see, there will always be a certain percentage of people who cancel/refund, change their mind. If your team is filled with actual salespeople (and not Order Takers) they will persuade people to buy things that they say they want now but will freak out about later. And that’s okay. Your comp plan should allow for a certain % that doesn’t affect your reps negatively. This could be 2-5-10-20% of their sales. The reason is vital is that you don’t want your team to worry about every client who cancels. Of course, you want them to save every deal they can but you also want a culture where they know the ones that might cancel as soon as they sell them. I always knew the ones that I persuaded to get help way outside of their comfort zone and was pretty sure they would call me back sometime after worrying about their decision. Give your team the benefit of the doubt of a certain, acceptable level of cancelations. Above that point, it should start to cost them financially. 3. Implement a Consistent Post-Sale Follow-Up Program Third – build a required, consistent post-sale follow up program. I recommend tracking this in your CRM and through your phone platform. If you just make it a task in your CRM, the reps could check the ‘task completed’ box and never actually make the outreach. And don’t let them just send emails to try and check in on their new customers. It would be way too easy for that scared, worried customer to reply back asking to cancel – which requires no level of confrontation. You need to make sure that they make the calls, and you can tie those calls to the required customer follow-ups. In call center environments I have been in, I have had the tech team program the phone (Five9) with the CRM (Salesforce) to actually lock the rep out of their phone (removing them from the inbound queue), popping up the customer record in Salesforce, and making it so the only action is to dial on that customer follow-up. 4. Build Automated Follow-Ups Fourth – build automated follow-ups. Use your CRM and/or marketing automation software to send out emails/messages to new customers. I know I just said to not let your reps do their follow-up via email, but these will be additional messages – more focused on use of and success with the product/service they purchased. Tips, best practices, ideas, and anything else that will help reinforce in their mind that buying from your company was the right long-term decision. Your team won’t send these types of messages consistently, which is why you should build them out. Think of it as a long-term nurture strategy for new customers that will lead to less cancellation attempts and should also lead to repeat business and/or referrals. Conclusion When you put those four sales ops processes in place you will have taken control of reducing the chances that someone will even think about canceling/returning what they bought from your team.
By Jason Cutter December 31, 2024
Calls and emails from a newly enrolled customer who wants to cancel their purchase/agreement can be devastating to a salesperson. I have seen so many reps come in, check their voice mail and email, get one or more cancelation requests that were waiting for them, and their mindset is wrecked for the day. I have watched this happen on a Monday morning, where the rep – on a weekly goal system – is now in the ‘hole’ with their sales, starting the week upside down in deal numbers and revenue, with a mountain they need to climb, potentially just to break even and get the week started. It’s not that they are a bad salesperson, selling bad deals, and not following the process. It’s that humans get scared, and it can feel like it comes in waves of people wanting to cancel. The damaging effects for the day/week can be so impactful that I have worked for companies where we shield the reps from their cancels – not letting them know until the week is over. Unfortunately, that doesn’t work well either, because it’s like telling a kid they are going to Disneyland but then taking them to the dentist. Whether they realize it or not in advance, the outcome is still bad. What can you do as a leader to help your team avoid that disappointment?  1. Set Clear Expectations First – set the right expectations with the team about the percentage of their sales that will cancel (or attempt to cancel). I wrote about it in Selling With Authentic Persuasion – if you are a sales professional, you will always have a certain amount of your sales that get hit with buyer’s remorse. If not, then you are an Order Taker just closing the easy sales of the people who know exactly what they want and why. What is that % in your industry? 2%? 5%? 10%? There are some number of acceptable, expected cancel/return/refund customers. When you are in sales, you are helping someone buy something new which means they must jump outside of their comfort zone. Some of them will want to retreat back inside, and that’s okay. Have the figure as something that the company is okay with and your team is aware of. 2. Train Reps to Address Buyer’s Remorse Early Second – Ensure your team is using the strategy and scripting that I covered in the Selling Effectiveness blog [LINK] from this week. It is so important that you train and support them in bringing up buyer’s remorse to each new customer. It can feel scary and counterintuitive to bring up the potential for a new customer to cancel, but that is not what we are doing. Our goal is to address the tricks that the human mind will play on that new customer in advance, so that when it happens your rep looks like a mind reader. Do your part as a leader to give your team the confidence to bring up things that weak salespeople would be afraid to do. This will be the difference maker that will bring down the volume of the cancelation/return/refund requests. And note – like any part of the sales conversation that you know is critical, you will most likely need to make it a required component with a way to hold them accountable (audited phone calls, for example). Don’t just trust that since you told them how important this is and that you expect it, that they will do it each and every time. And if you don’t believe me (“my team always does what I tell them to do”) then watch your cancel/attempt numbers to see if they change and watch them on an individual rep basis – you will know who is doing and who isn’t. 3. Enforce Post-Sale Follow-Up Calls Third – Require and hold them accountable for their post-sale follow up calls. Don’t just think they will happen because you told them how valuable they were (sound familiar…see above ;). They will most likely default to thinking that their job is done since the sale is closed. Your rep(s) will want to move on to the next lead/deal. And they will most likely think “I don’t get paid to make follow up calls.” But they are so wrong – as I was taught a long time ago, “a deal saved is a deal earned.” Don’t let them fall into the trap of thinking that they will just go close more deals if someone cancels. That is a dangerous game to play – to stay ahead of the curve of cancels. I have seen it enough times, there will come a point where the rep can’t outrun the wave of cancels/refunds that is coming for them, and they get crushed by a paycheck without any commission because they didn’t close more deals than they lost in the period. Why Follow-Up Calls Matter The key is the follow up calls – they must be done. It will show that new customer two very important things. First, that the rep cares enough to check in, and they didn’t just make the sale and move on. Second, it will give the rep a chance to speak with the new customer, address any concerns (buyer’s remorse thoughts) and help them stay on board with what they purchased. As a sales leader, it’s your mission to help your team succeed. That means doing more than getting them to close deals today…it requires you to do all you can to support them on keeping those deals closed.
By Jason Cutter December 30, 2024
The Thrill of a Successful Sale Everything went right. You did your job well; you presented the ideal solution that will help that prospective customer get to a better place in their life/business. They were clear on what they wanted help with, and you delivered on that. They signed on the dotted line (if that’s still a thing) and paid or committed to paying the invoice. You celebrated the successful closed sale. Maybe you rang a bell, or hit the gong, or got high fives, or just cheered yourself on in your mind. The Crushing Blow: Buyer’s Remorse Then you get the call/email/message. They changed their mind. After thinking about it, they decided that it wasn’t what they wanted. They would like to cancel, bring it back, get a refund, avoid the pending invoice, etc. Whatever that looks like for you and your company. They want to undo what was done. They want to unring the sales bell. And in that moment, when you the salesperson finds out your sale wants to un-buy can be mentally devastating. It can feel soul crushing, and it has the potential of ruining any momentum and focus that you had. Especially when you start to think about the financial ramifications of that person canceling. Why Does Buyer’s Remorse Happen? But why does this happen? What leads to buyer’s remorse? (which can be even more frustrating when it seemed like the perfect fit/purchase.) It all comes down to fear of the unknown as well as our primal human instinct to avoid doing anything that will negatively affect our status in the tribe (work, family, friends, society at large, etc.). Buying something new = the unknown. Which is scary for the survival-focused part of our brain. When the momentum, excitement, and or magic of the sales conversation wears off, and your new customer has time to think their mind will start to focus on those fears. People’s fear response will kick in, if they don’t have the needed tools to fight it. They will go into fight, flight, or freeze mode. That’s when you get the call, find the voicemail or email, or get that message that they have changed their mind. Their Fear > Their Hope for a different/better future. The known is safer than the unknown. You lose your sale. They stay stuck. How to Mitigate Buyer’s Remorse Now – there is a way to help mitigate buyer’s remorse. I don’t want to make this whole article a doom and gloom reflection of what you already get frustrated with. But it is important to understand where buyer’s remorse comes from. So – what can you do? The first thing is to call it out. Fear likes to hide in the shadows. When you label that fear and warn your prospect of what will happen, it makes a big difference. Towards the end of your sales conversation, you will want to bring up buyer’s remorse. This might seem strange, and most weak salespeople don’t want to say or do anything that might feel like they are planting a seed for a cancelation/return. If you did your job throughout, you have nothing to fear. Prepare Them for Doubts Tell your new customer that they will most likely experience some buyer’s remorse. It happens to everyone. The brain starts to wonder, question, doubt. That’s normal. And then – here is the key – remind them of WHY they are buying this product/service, and WHY it matters to them, and WHY it will help them get to where they want to be in life/business. That way they can focus on that when the doubt and fear kicks in. Follow Up Proactively Lastly, tell them you will call in 24-48 hours. To check in. To remind them of their WHY. To help them feel great about their decision. If you want to keep more of your sales closed then you must take a proactive approach to mitigating buyer’s remorse. Because either you beat buyer’s remorse to the punch, or it punches your deal right in the face.
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